How do I tell my best friend that I'm dating his sister behind his back? *UPDATE* All is well :-)

NFS4

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He's very protective of her, yet he knows that we are close...I just don't think that he knew that we were THIS close. I think that he may have a suspicion about it, but I'm not sure and he hasn't said anything to me.

I feel bad b/c his parents know and my parents know (his parents love me to death and my parents love her as well), yet he has no clue. I'd rather just sit down and tell him in person before he hears it through the grapevine, but I won't be able to meet with him until the weekend. And calling him to tell him about it just seems so impersonal.

Or should I just not say anything and let him find out on his own?...nah that sounds like a bad idea!!:p He'd probably murder me!!

What's the best approach?
 

Nitemare

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Comment on all the booty that you have been getting recently. Tell him how this girl is a freak in bed, then show him a picture of her.
 

mpitts

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Comment on all the booty that you have been getting recently. Tell him how this girl is a freak in bed, then show him a picture of her.

Now THAT is a good answer. :D
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Comment on all the booty that you have been getting recently. Tell him how this girl is a freak in bed, then show him a picture of her.

I should have known that I'd be in for this
rolleye.gif
 

fs5

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1. go watch bad boys ii
2. take notes
3. replay scenes related scenes w/ your friend.

Hey it worked for them!
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: boyRacer
Tell him you were just using her to get even closer to him.

OK, now that is just wrong...and Jerry Springer material...haha
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: fivespeed5
1. go watch bad boys ii
2. take notes
3. replay scenes related scenes w/ your friend.

Hey it worked for them!

(1) Seen it
(2) I was taking mental notes during the film
(3) Good idea!
 

stormbv

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I'd ask him if it was alright that I date his sister. If he says it's okay, then great, he feels empowered and feels like he had a say in the matter. If he says it's not okay, I'd say, "Too bad, because I'm already hitting it and it's goooood!"

Then I'd run.
 

Judgement

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Comment on all the booty that you have been getting recently. Tell him how this girl is a freak in bed, then show him a picture of her.

lol
 

RossMAN

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: fivespeed5
1. go watch bad boys ii
2. take notes
3. replay scenes related scenes w/ your friend.

Hey it worked for them!

(1) Seen it
(2) I was taking mental notes during the film
(3) Good idea!

If she looks like Martin Lawrence's sister in Bad Boys II you'd better post pics or ban!
 

Mr N8

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Just tell him. If he finds out another way, he'll probably beat you even harder.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Comment on all the booty that you have been getting recently. Tell him how this girl is a freak in bed, then show him a picture of her.

I should have known that I'd be in for this
rolleye.gif

ok, bad idea...


hmmmm...let him catch you in the act?


or just be direct and ask him straight out what he would think if you were to date his sister?
 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: MogulMonster
Just tell him. If he finds out another way, he'll probably beat you even harder.

Guess I'll be making a call tonight. I'll be sure to deadbolt the doors before I go to bed though :p
 

RossMAN

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I would tell him in person face to face, like take him out to lunch.