• We’re currently investigating an issue related to the forum theme and styling that is impacting page layout and visual formatting. The problem has been identified, and we are actively working on a resolution. There is no impact to user data or functionality, this is strictly a front-end display issue. We’ll post an update once the fix has been deployed. Thanks for your patience while we get this sorted.

How close to the wedding do you hold a bachelor party?

S

Spooner

Lifer
Buddy's gettin married July 31st, next year.

What dates are appropriate for a trip to Vegas? Trying to do an extended weekend kind of thing.
 
i'm kind of confused about this whole thing, is it permissible for the groom to actually sleep with another woman?
 
Originally posted by: gopunk
i'm kind of confused about this whole thing, is it permissible for the groom to actually sleep with another woman?
Click to expand...

Not if he wants to retain his "groom" status. 😉
 
Originally posted by: radioouman
1 to 2 days before... Get him so drunk that he is still drunk at the wedding...
just kidding
Click to expand...

this is bad advice, i wasnt the groom but...

we had a non-stop week of drinking binges, i was one of the groomsmen, needless to say, day of the wedding, i wake up an hour before it starts (3pm), still dizzy as a mofo, the whole week is still hazy. :Q

i say the wkend before, give at least 2 days for recovery back to normal 😉
 
Bachelor parties are not for the groom. They are for the grooms friends. Which is why its very selfish for the groom to not want to have one.
 
Originally posted by: gopunk
i'm kind of confused about this whole thing, is it permissible for the groom to actually sleep with another woman?
Click to expand...

Bachelor parties are an unspoken "anything goes and noone there tells anyone who wasn't there anything" kind of deal. Anyone who tried to bring a camera get the sh!t kicked out of them. No parents allowed.

It's your last night before oficially becoming connected to your SO. What you choose to do with it is up to you.
 
Originally posted by: Spooner
Buddy's gettin married July 31st, next year.

What dates are appropriate for a trip to Vegas? Trying to do an extended weekend kind of thing.
Click to expand...

Depends how much forgiveness time he will need. I would go this next weekend.
 
My brother's friend had his the night before the wedding. The bride was not happy. 😀

Bachelor parties are an unspoken "anything goes and noone there tells anyone who wasn't there anything" kind of deal. Anyone who tried to bring a camera get the sh!t kicked out of them. No parents allowed.
Click to expand...
I wouldn't say that. Presumably the groom loves his future wife and isn't going to engage in any hanky panky. My friend's bachelor party was a weekend of golf with the guys. No strippers, no booze. But still fun.
 
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
Originally posted by: gopunk
i'm kind of confused about this whole thing, is it permissible for the groom to actually sleep with another woman?
Click to expand...

Bachelor parties are an unspoken "anything goes and noone there tells anyone who wasn't there anything" kind of deal. Anyone who tried to bring a camera get the sh!t kicked out of them. No parents allowed.

It's your last night before oficially becoming connected to your SO. What you choose to do with it is up to you.
Click to expand...

Hell, my Father-In-Law bought me a lap dance 😀
 
The best bachelor parties are depraved affairs that leave the groom-to-be totally degraded and humilated and all of his single (and occasionally married) friends spent. As Ynog said, they aren't so much for the groom as his friends.

That said, I am looking forward to mine in February... 🙂

(1 month prior to the wedding)
 
There is no such thing as a Jack and Jill bachelor party...

edit - note: the obvious exception is when jill is paid to be at the party....
 
I'd say a good week or two before. Hell, I had mine almost a month before. Just depends on how many schedules you have to work around.
 
Originally posted by: Ynog
Bachelor parties are not for the groom. They are for the grooms friends. Which is why its very selfish for the groom to not want to have one.
Click to expand...

There is two sides to the word selfish.

Feh. It's your wedding. If your friends want to go out and to the nudey bar and get blasted in your honor and you don't want to go, they are free to do so. When they take you out to celebrate, they should respect your limits and boundaries. It's not selfish - it's your wedding, not theirs.
 
Originally posted by: Mwilding
There is no such thing as a Jack and Jill bachelor party...

edit - note: the obvious exception is when jill is paid to be at the party....
Click to expand...


who said anything about bachelor? I said party. 😉
 
Originally posted by: gopunk
i'm kind of confused about this whole thing, is it permissible for the groom to actually sleep with another woman?
Click to expand...

if he f*cks some other girl, he shouldn't get married 🙁

 
You must log in or register to reply here.

TRENDING THREADS

Back
Top