How close are you with your parents?

EngenZerO

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Dec 24, 2001
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i am very close with my parents, talk to them daily, and rarley argue with them...

they are actually pretty damn cool...
 
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Lola

really close with my mom... my dad and i had some hard times but now we are closer than ever before.
they mean the world to me
 

CraigRT

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Jun 16, 2000
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Very close, I have no siblings and no family in my town.. they are the only family I have and I love them dearly!

I have the same relationship with them as EngenZerO describes.
 

Mr N8

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Dec 3, 2001
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When I was living with them, we had a mostly peaceful relationship. Mostly, it was the type of relationship that we recognized that the other existed, and respected each others space and position. Now that I've been out of the house for ~ 6 years and married for 4 years, we've gotten a lot closer. We see each other maybe 1-2 times a week, but we actually know each other pretty well and enjoy doing things together.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Sep 26, 2003
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I talk to them both. I play World of Warcraft with my dad and his wife, and I talk to my mom almost everyday.
When she answers the phone, I usually tell her she needs to get a real job and lose some weight. Then she will tell me to go to hell and burn. All jokingly of course.
 

y2kc

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Sep 2, 2000
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My dad and I were never very close, he was a "children should be seen and not heard" type. My mom and I are ok, i'd do anything for her and vice-versa but I sometimes go weeks between visits or phone conversations.

They weren't very warm parents and they raised a luke-warm child.
 

Ryan

Lifer
Oct 31, 2000
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I'm very close to my parents - when I moved out for the first time, talked to them on a daily basis for like the first 6 months :shocked: I don't ever fight with them (as stated above, I also save that for my dumbass sibling - my sister!).
 

DougK62

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Mar 28, 2001
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I'm kinda close to my parents. They live nearby and I enjoy visiting with them, but only do so maybe once a week. I like my space and they like theirs.

 

nageov3t

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Feb 18, 2004
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somewhat close. I visit them at least once a week, and we haven't fought in a very long time... but I'm not nearly as close to them as my sister is. my sister and my mom call eachother at least 2-3 times/day. outside of my weekly visit, I don't talk with them all that often.
 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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not emotionally close, at all. have a polite, more or less friendly relationship with them, but don't share many aspects of my life with them.
 

AdamSnow

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Nov 21, 2002
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Very close...

Talk to them every night, visit, hang out... Girlfriend is very close to them as well... We never fight or argue about anything...

Work on cars all the time, fishing, ATVing, etc. with my dad...
Help prepare food, clean up, help with puzzles and crafts with my mom...

Very good people. I think the people that are close to their parents are very fortunate...
 

JulesMaximus

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Jul 3, 2003
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I am close to my Mom even though we live 2500 miles apart but I only talk to my Dad about once a year...if that.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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we stopped fighting after I moved out... we're always on good terms now that I only see them once or twice a week.. but we do speak at least every other day on the phone/email.
 

Amused

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Apr 14, 2001
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I very close to my mother.

My father died in 1986. Just when I was realizing he wasn't an idiot and I didn't know everything (19).
 

RMSistight

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Oct 2, 2003
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Originally posted by: DP
love my parents, great people, nuff' said

I'm not close to my parents at all. I don't hate them, but I was raised a certain way. I'm kind of close to my mother but not my father. I must say I often times feared my parents. But now I'm ok about it. I sort of still fear my father (he's 65) but I'm scared that one day I'm going to out all in rage against him.

If you refer the post about if your parents used a belt on you here, you will read my post and know what I'm talking about. (Scroll down a little bit)
 

Ausm

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Oct 9, 1999
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Mother got killed by a drunk driver when I was 6. Father remarried a total bitch. Moved out when I was 15 made 1st contact with my dad when I was 30. Relationship is a guarded one at best.

Ausm
 

RMSistight

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Oct 2, 2003
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Originally posted by: Ausm
Mother got killed by a drunk driver when I was 6. Father remarried a total bitch. Moved out when I was 15 made 1st contact with my dad when I was 30. Relationship is a guarded one at best.

Ausm

Man...sucks. Sorry to hear that.
 

bigrash

Lifer
Feb 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: RMSistight
Originally posted by: Ausm
Mother got killed by a drunk driver when I was 6. Father remarried a total bitch. Moved out when I was 15 made 1st contact with my dad when I was 30. Relationship is a guarded one at best.

Ausm

Man...sucks. Sorry to hear that.