How can you help someone that won't take it?

[Skel]

I have a old friend that won't take money from me (long story), but really needs it, is there any way anyone knows that I could get them the money without them knowing it was from me?

 

[Evadman]

I am the same way. I refuse to take money from anyone. good luck.

 

[NutBucket]

Been in this position before for far more serious issues. Not much you can do.

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: Evadman
I am the same way. I refuse to take money from anyone. good luck.

-=bmacd=-

 

[Skel]

There has got to be a way.... I refuse to watch them fall...:|

 

[Soybomb]

Perhaps to him "falling" would be taking someone's money? I'm pretty stubborn when it comes to that myself...

 

[DAWeinG]

I am the same way too 🙁 What I would do is just tell him that you're letting him borrow it interest free and that he doesn't have to pay it back anytime soon if that makes him more comfortable.

 

[Skel]

They use to take my money, then we had a falling out, and now it's a pride thing....

That and they thing I have another motive..

 

[dirtboy]

Leave him alone.

 

[Skel]

Originally posted by: dirtboy
Leave him alone.

While I know that's the easy way... I made a promise to his mother... I don't walk away from those...

 

[EvilYoda]

Have you tried finding someone that they trust and don't doubt, and go through them?

 

[Skel]

Originally posted by: EvilYoda
Have you tried finding someone that they trust and don't doubt, and go through them?

The problem with that, is we don't run in the same circles... and his friends can't/would never help like this, so I'm trying to figure a way to get him the money without my name attached...

 

[Pastore]

Sometimes a person has to hit rock bottom before they can get back to the top.

Sad But True - Metallica