how can I see if I'm on someone else's AIM list?

[Dangerer]

i know how you feel, i used to cry myself to sleep thinking about how much i hated this girl that inside i really wanted.

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Do yourself a favor and delete her name off of your list.

i think this is also an option...

hold on

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86
i'd still be friends with her

i just hate her for befriending people to use them.

i guess i'm an obsessive guy. happens everytime. i don't really hate anybody

Except yourself. That's the only reason you must be willing to put up with this kind of heartache and control. Let go. Start respecting yourself and it'll be a lot easier to flip the bird to those who wrong you, forgive them, walk away, and forget about it.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: iskim86
even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not

Originally posted by: iskim86
i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me i still have her on my list

Originally posted by: iskim86
i'd still be friends with her but she likes to use people (she used me a lot but I didn't care because I still cared for her :| ).

Originally posted by: iskim86
we're actually in college. i'm 18, she's 20. will turn 21 soon. we're both freshmen. she's still stuck in damn high school mode. :|

Originally posted by: iskim86
we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online.

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me?

It's been six months. Seriously... Get help.

(I hate being on the bottom of the page.)

Counselling is your only hope. Six months is an unhealthy obsession. She probably has you blocked. You're lucky she doesn't have a restraining order against you.

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Do yourself a favor and delete her name off of your list.

i think this is also an option...

hold on

If you leave her name there, then everytime you see her name you're going to go into your memories and get either angry or sad. Delete the name and get on with life.

Next time this happens, delete the name ASAP.

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: Nik
Stop lying to yourself. It's obvious to anyone with any skill at reading between the lines. You care. The quickest way of getting over someone isn't by denying and hiding the feelings that you have to deal with sooner or later. Deal with them now and get over her sooner than lying to yourself and continuing to wallow in pitty.

:beer:

you douche, stop assuming so much. no wonder people here dislike you.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: DAGTA
Do yourself a favor and delete her name off of your list.

i think this is also an option...

hold on

If you do, don't add it back :laugh: Delete it and try your damndest to resist.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: Nik
Stop lying to yourself. It's obvious to anyone with any skill at reading between the lines. You care. The quickest way of getting over someone isn't by denying and hiding the feelings that you have to deal with sooner or later. Deal with them now and get over her sooner than lying to yourself and continuing to wallow in pitty.

:beer:

you douche, stop assuming so much. no wonder people here dislike you.

I'm not a douche. However, my assumptions are obviously correct by the hostility in your reply. Humans are built remarkably similar to other humans, my friend.

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: iskim86
even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not

Originally posted by: iskim86
i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me i still have her on my list

Originally posted by: iskim86
i'd still be friends with her but she likes to use people (she used me a lot but I didn't care because I still cared for her :| ).

Originally posted by: iskim86
we're actually in college. i'm 18, she's 20. will turn 21 soon. we're both freshmen. she's still stuck in damn high school mode. :|

Originally posted by: iskim86
we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online.

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me?

It's been six months. Seriously... Get help.

(I hate being on the bottom of the page.)

Counselling is your only hope. Six months is an unhealthy obsession. She probably has you blocked. You're lucky she doesn't have a restraining order against you.

it's not an obsession. this is the first time I've thought about her ties/unties with me in months :|
if you call that an obsession, you're the one who needs help :roll:

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

OP is psychooooo...

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86
it's not an obsession. this is the first time I've thought about her ties/unties with me in months :|
if you call that an obsession, you're the one who needs help :roll:

Sigh. First step is denial. At least you're making progress! Sometimes it takes years to get past an emotional tie to someone. :beer:

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: Nik
Stop lying to yourself. It's obvious to anyone with any skill at reading between the lines. You care. The quickest way of getting over someone isn't by denying and hiding the feelings that you have to deal with sooner or later. Deal with them now and get over her sooner than lying to yourself and continuing to wallow in pitty.

:beer:

you douche, stop assuming so much. no wonder people here dislike you.

I'm not a douche. However, my assumptions are obviously correct by the hostility in your reply. Humans are built remarkably similar to other humans, my friend.

we must be twins or something with equally douchey personalities

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
OP is psychooooo...

No, he's perfectly normal.

 

[OrganizedChaos]

you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

:Q

how do I do that?

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

:Q

how do I do that?

Change your screen name and be selective in choosing who you trust with the new one.

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

:Q

how do I do that?

Change your screen name and be selective in choosing who you trust with the new one.

but trust can quickly turn into a bunch of lies and hate :laugh:

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

:Q

how do I do that?

Change your screen name and be selective in choosing who you trust with the new one.

but trust can quickly turn into a bunch of lies and hate :laugh:

you're preachin' to the choir, bud

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
you can remove yourself from other peoples AIM buddy lists

:Q

how do I do that?

Change your screen name and be selective in choosing who you trust with the new one.

but trust can quickly turn into a bunch of lies and hate :laugh:

you're preachin' to the choir, bud

maybe i'll feel better when i wake up tomorrow morning... volcanoes midterm at 1:30pm...

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86
maybe i'll feel better when i wake up tomorrow morning... volcanoes midterm at 1:30pm...

Sleep usually does wonders for me. Then again, so does alcohol, unfortunately.

 

[tami]

...you can't.

but you can play aimfight.

 

[bubbadu]

1. Wait until she puts up away message.
2. Send IM.
3. If you get a response, you are on list.
4. Else you suck at life.
......
5. Profit FTW?

 

[ColdFusion718]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

LOL

 

[KoolDrew]

Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

:laugh:

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: DaWhim
wait for her to im you first, if she does, you are on her list.

:laugh: you keep waiting man.