how can I see if I'm on someone else's AIM list?

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: Nik
Stop lying to yourself. It's obvious to anyone with any skill at reading between the lines. You care. The quickest way of getting over someone isn't by denying and hiding the feelings that you have to deal with sooner or later. Deal with them now and get over her sooner than lying to yourself and continuing to wallow in pitty.

:beer:

blech...can't believe I'm agreeing with Nik :beer:

-=bmacd=-

 

[l Xes l]

i used to be like you when i was in HS... but u r growing up and life is short... if you want her back in your life as a friend or whatever it may be.. cut the bullsh!t and talk to her...

 

[ColdFusion718]

The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable. Think about that and then act on it, get closure, then move on to bigger and better things. You are in college, you should be focusing on getting a good education, getting some good beer, and finally, getting some good pvssy, not being bent up on some girl who isn't talking to you.

Actually, let me fix that last part: getting whatever pvssy is good for you at this point. It's sort of like pizza. When it's bad, it's still kind of good. When it's good, it's really really good

 

[iskim86]

Originally posted by: krnxpride83
i used to be like you when i was in HS... but u r growing up and life is short... if you want her back in your life as a friend or whatever it may be.. cut the bullsh!t and talk to her...

i think i'm too mentally and psychologically immature to be a college sophomore.

that is all.

 

[getbush]

iskim86 and techboyJK should get together

 

[RossMAN]

You can stalk her with AimCheck.com :shocked:

BTW Nik pwn3d you a few times, that's gotta hurt.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: bubbadu
1. Wait until she puts up away message.
2. Send IM.
3. If you get a response, you are on list.
4. Else you suck at life.
......
5. Profit FTW?

away messages are sent to people regardless of whether they're on the buddylist or not

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: krnxpride83
i used to be like you when i was in HS... but u r growing up and life is short... if you want her back in your life as a friend or whatever it may be.. cut the bullsh!t and talk to her...

i think i'm too mentally and psychologically immature to be a college sophomore.

that is all.

A "mentally and psychologically mature college sophomore" is one of the world's biggest oxymorons

 

[JME Fidelity]

wtf you hate her, and she hates you. Get over it and move on. Stop wasting time on people that dont matter.

 

[funkymatt]

wait until she has a away message up, IM her. if it auto replys with her away message then you're on her list.

dammit!

Originally posted by: bubbadu
1. Wait until she puts up away message.
2. Send IM.
3. If you get a response, you are on list.
4. Else you suck at life.
......
5. Profit FTW?

 

[getbush]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: bubbadu
1. Wait until she puts up away message.
2. Send IM.
3. If you get a response, you are on list.
4. Else you suck at life.
......
5. Profit FTW?

away messages are sent to people regardless of whether they're on the buddylist or not

No I think you have to be on their list. It depends I guess. If they have it set to not immediately accept messages, where you get that message "would you like to accept message from", then you won't get their auto response. That's the way it is by default.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: getbush

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: bubbadu
1. Wait until she puts up away message.
2. Send IM.
3. If you get a response, you are on list.
4. Else you suck at life.
......
5. Profit FTW?

away messages are sent to people regardless of whether they're on the buddylist or not

No I think you have to be on their list. It depends I guess. If they have it set to not immediately accept messages, where you get that message "would you like to accept message from", then you won't get their auto response. That's the way it is by default.

Yup, depends on the software apparently. I haven't used the AIM software in years. That default option sucks.

 

[Schfifty Five]

Wow, OP, have you even tried listening to yourself or reading what you posted?

It's really confusing/conflicting.

You and this chick apparently hate each other very much. And you don't want anything to do with her so why do you want to know so badly whether or not you are on her AIM list? Me thinks that you hope you are on her AIM list b/c in the off chance that it is, you will miscontrue that as another chance that you and her will get together or something.

Nik is right, you have feelings for this girl yet you consistenly deny it. However, your ultra defensive, hostile attitude clearly shows that you want exactly the opposite of what you're posting here.

Either forget about this girl and stop saying "im curious if i'm on her AIM", or just confess that you have feelings for her and IM her or call her to talk to her.

And you two are 18 and 21 in college? LOL you sure act like 14 year olds. I can't believe you take AIM so seriously.

 

[johnjbruin]

Go To Privacy - Simply change the option to "Only people on my list can see me" and then remove her name from your list.

After this - you can be sure that you are NOT on her list.

 

[Bryophyte]

Just block her and get on with life.

 

[Rookie]

Originally posted by: iskim86

Originally posted by: DaWhim
wait for her to im you first, if she does, you are on her list.

we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online.

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me?

GET OVER IT! Man up a LITTLE son... dang.

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[iskim86]

Originally posted by: RossMAN
You can stalk her with AimCheck.com :shocked:

BTW Nik pwn3d you a few times, that's gotta hurt.

yeah a bunch of 0s and 1s hurt me so bad because I am such a sensitive guy

 

[So]

Why do you care if you're on her list if you HATE HER?