how can I see if I'm on someone else's AIM list?

iskim86

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is there a way to see if I'm on someone's AIM list? I hvae this cihck on my list and I was on her list too but something happened (read: she turned into a bich) and I'm curious if I'm still on her friends list. She's a friend collector (makes friends to make use of their belongings) and I'm curious if I'm still on her list. i know her in real life too (that's how we first met) but i don't talk to her anymore so it got kinda awkward :(

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Eli

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I don't think there's a way. At least, I don't know of one other than, "Hey, am I on your list?"

heh
 

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log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: Eli
I don't think there's a way. At least, I don't know of one other than, "Hey, am I on your list?"

heh

that's what I was thinking. but i don't want to message or talk to her... she'll probably just rip on me and show off about her newly made friends and say i'm useless now cuz she's not relying on me anymore or some retarded shite like that. :roll:

there must be another way.....
 

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Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

LOL
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not :(
 

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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not :(
liar.

:p
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: vshah
why do you care?

i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me :( i still have her on my list :(
 
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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: vshah
why do you care?

i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me :( i still have her on my list :(

High school drama ++
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: Mwilding
log on and off 1000 times in a row. If they message you to quit it, you are on their list...

even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not :(
liar.

:p

people who blame shite at others for their own f'ed up personality makes them hated. :|

i'd still be friends with her but she likes to use people (she used me a lot but I didn't care because I still cared for her :| ).
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: SynthDude2001
Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: vshah
why do you care?

i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me :( i still have her on my list :(

High school drama ++

we're actually in college. i'm 18, she's 20. will turn 21 soon. we're both freshmen. she's still stuck in damn high school mode. :|
 

GasX

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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: DaWhim
wait for her to im you first, if she does, you are on her list.

we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online. :(

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me? :(

It's sad when people want to be friends with people who don't reciprocate the sentiment.

Move on, kid. It's been a year. it's time...
 

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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: SynthDude2001
Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: vshah
why do you care?

i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me :( i still have her on my list :(

High school drama ++

we're actually in college. i'm 18, she's 20. will turn 21 soon. we're both freshmen. she's still stuck in damn high school mode. :|

Sounds like she isn't the only one. Just quit stalking her.
 

iskim86

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Originally posted by: Mwilding
Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: DaWhim
wait for her to im you first, if she does, you are on her list.

we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online. :(

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me? :(

It's sad when people want to be friends with people who don't reciprocate the sentiment.

Move on, kid. It's been a year. it's time...

i did move on. i don't talk to her anymore, we both feel awkward toward each other, she probably hates me a lot, I hate her too, but would gladly say "hi" to her when I see her on campus or on the streets.

I'm just curious........ :(
 

GasX

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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: Mwilding
Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: DaWhim
wait for her to im you first, if she does, you are on her list.

we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online. :(

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me? :(

It's sad when people want to be friends with people who don't reciprocate the sentiment.

Move on, kid. It's been a year. it's time...

i did move on. i don't talk to her anymore, we both feel awkward toward each other, she probably hates me a lot, I hate her too, but would gladly say "hi" to her when I see her on campus or on the streets.

I'm just curious........ :(
Go back and read each of your posts again. Note how you contradict yourself. You are clearly obsessed, haven't gotten over her and don't hate her.

 
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Originally posted by: iskim86
even if i do that, she probably won't tell me to cut it out. she just plain hates me now (god i hate her too). i just want to know if I'm on her list or not :(

Originally posted by: iskim86
i care because we were almost best friends (everything went downhill) and i just want to know if she deleted me on her AIM list so she can completely cut her ties with me :( i still have her on my list :(

Originally posted by: iskim86
i'd still be friends with her but she likes to use people (she used me a lot but I didn't care because I still cared for her :| ).

Originally posted by: iskim86
we're actually in college. i'm 18, she's 20. will turn 21 soon. we're both freshmen. she's still stuck in damn high school mode. :|

Originally posted by: iskim86
we haven't talked in 6 months. in real life and online. :(

what if I'm on her list but she never talks to me? :(

It's been six months. Seriously... Get help.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Stop lying to yourself. It's obvious to anyone with any skill at reading between the lines. You care. The quickest way of getting over someone isn't by denying and hiding the feelings that you have to deal with sooner or later. Deal with them now and get over her sooner than lying to yourself and continuing to wallow in pitty.

:beer:
 

iskim86

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i'd still be friends with her

i just hate her for befriending people to use them.

i guess i'm an obsessive guy. happens everytime. i don't really hate anybody :(