winfax tech support won't help me unless the modem is installed to their specs
com4 or lower and irq5 or lower.
I'l try switching the pci slots around. this really pisses me off
EDIT: I fixed it. didn't change the irq but I got winfax working, which was the reason for this mess. turns out it's database had goteten corrupted. so even though I reinstalled, I was trying to use the old data. and I still had my probs. a full uninstall then clean reinstall fixed it.