Why would you put "rights" in quotations like that? Do you not believe that gay people are entitled to the same rights as everyone else? The Constitution says that they are.
I don't think you understand what the marriage benefits are, because if you did you would realize that your suggestion is incoherent on its face.
Moreover, there's nothing inherently unconstitutional about recognizing certain priviledges for couples entering into a marriage agreement. It only becomes unconstitutional when the government decides that certain people cannot enter into the same contract as other people because of their gender.
You ask that as though you would expect us to realize that people do not deserve the same rights, which in fact only reveals your own bigotry.
blah blah blah...all these words and circle around the wagon, not one word addressing the core issue. What is the definition of marriage. Why one man or one woman cannot bend the definition of marriage while two man or two woman can. Why is two man or two woman is entitled to the "right" to marriage and the benefit that comes with it, but one man or one woman is not.
Denying black the same right as rest of the people is bigotry. Calling black people white is dumb.
Denying gay union the same "right" (I quote right to differentiate it from privilege) is bigotry. Calling gay union marriage is dumb.
What is "right" for gay union and what is "privilege" should be looked at and discussed rationally because of the inherent difference between gay union and marriage. There are privileges given to married couple because the contribution of their marriage to the foundation of the society. If gay union contribute the same, give them the same privilege, if not, don't, simple as that. Just have an open and rational discussion.
Just don't call marriage and gay union the same. That's what irrational politically correct don't want to think person do.