How big is too big?

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wkabel23

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I make it a point to note have any sexual encounters with overweight women, although I have taken one for the team a few times and gone home with a slightly overweight woman. If a girl is wearing a tight shirt and I see rolls of fat...count me out :)

Paris Hilton isn't that hot but she's about the right body type. Maybe a little bit thicker.
 

judasmachine

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Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: judasmachine
I like them to have hips and an ass. I'm more a J-lo type of guy to be honest.

I do find it weird how people go straight for the celebrities when they think of beauty, those women are plastic and unreal. They all have a dilluded view of what they should look like, and they binge and purge to get there. Although I'd kill you all for one night with winona rider.

For some reason I couldn't help but picture Winona staring at you with terror in her eyes, as you stand on top of a mangled pile of nerds, holding a knife and covered in blood, cooing "I love you Winona... Come here baby."


You mean she wouldn't love me more?!?!?!?!?! :)
 

AlienCraft

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must be height / weight proportionate.
No fat ones, no rails either.
Like me. 6'2" 190lbs <lost 65 lbs on ATKINS and excersize.
 

KarenMarie

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Taller than me by at least 2 inches. Bigger than me by enough that I feel like the girlie one in the relationship!

:)
 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: judasmachine
When you guys are out scouting for women at bars or clubs or whatever, how big is too big, and how little is too little? I ask this cause my brother tells me I like too skinny of girls. I don't know about too big and too little, but you can tell whether someone takes care of themselves or not. Yeah a 175lb woman isn't nessecarily too big as she may be a body builder or something like that. Some like 95lb. women and that is just too small for me. I tend to think that about 120lb to maybe 160lb is about medium and fair. Am I too strict? Or does my brother just like women that are huge? I do tend to think that this has alot to do with how a person takes care of themselves. If you are fat, soft , and lumpy, you obviously don't work out, and prolly overeat. And are more akin to have health problems later on. And if you are a skeleton with skin streched over it then you obviously have problems NOW.

Where is your happy medium?

I have noticed that a$$holes think that their tastes and values are universal or should be universal.

Trust yourself.

If you are attracted to women who weigh 120 pounds then 120 pound women are attractive women.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: judasmachine
Yeah I think 160lb is pushing it unless it's meat. But she'd dwarf my 5'8" 145lbs. I was trying to be diplomatic.

Dude, ATOT calls Linsey Lohan and Britney Spears fat. They call Paris Hilton ugly. There's no need to be diplomatic.

BTW, Lindsey Lohan and Britney Spears are both outside what I'd consider desirable height\weight. Paris Hilton is perfection though.
*barf*

Call me homosexual if you will, but I find Paris to be absolutely disgusting...
 

rh71

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our friends got to talking yesterday and I found out two of our friends are under 100lbs... but they are not anorexic looking at all. THey are way short (I can't really tell how short - definitely not above 5'2"). I don't think you can answer this question by weight alone.
 

JulesMaximus

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My wife is 5'4" and 125lbs. She is perfect as far as I'm concerned. :thumbsup:

She looks great naked! :p
 

patrick409

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Depends on the height I guess. She can be heavier if she's taller. Girls with big boobs and booty also weigh a bit more..

My ideal would be someone around 5'4" to 5'6". I like em thin, but not too thin. Maybe something around Jessica Alba, thickness wise.

Gotta be able to pick her up and toss her around in the sack without having to put in a lotta effort or worry about breaking her ;)

I'm about 5'11" 180lbs.
 

nageov3t

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as long as we can comfortably have sex, I'm ok with dating big girls.

and there's something to say for a girl who can beat people up for me :p
 

Isla

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Originally posted by: dderidex
I dunno....160lbs is....quite a 'well rounded' woman, if you get my meaning. Unless she's on the tall side.

Hell, *I* only weigh 155, and am 5'11" in moderately good shape (I exercise, but don't make a point of building muscle).


Not necessarily. I'm 5'6 and weigh just under 150, but I wear between a size 6 and size 8 jean. My bust and shoulders are considerably broader though... 36C and a size 10 or 'medium' up top. Shape wise, I am a bit of an inverted triangle. I wish I had more booty. I have to find pants that make my butt look bigger.

I do have a lot of muscle mass (years of roller skating and mountain biking), a minimum amount of cellulite (mostly from aging rather than being overweight), I wear a size 10 shoe (that's like a men's 9 I think) and my bone structure is on the high end of 'medium' or low end of 'large' when you measure my wrist bone.

Interestingly enough, I've had a lot of people tell me how slim I look lately. I tell them how much I weigh and they are shocked. I guess it has a lot more to do with what the materials are more than the number. :p
 

abaez

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I don't care either way. There are beautiful big and small women.

There is a bigger woman (I saw that because of what I read here most of you would consider her big) that comeson the train, man she is hot. She also spends the few minutes she is on playing on a gba! I wish I had the balls to say something to her.
 

anxi80

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as in the immortal words of my father... "no two-fourty*-shorties"

*two-forty as in their weight, 240 lbs. ...im not saying that its the limit (its far less than that for me), but he was just making a point
 

olds

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
My wife is 5'4" and 125lbs. She is perfect as far as I'm concerned. :thumbsup:

She looks great naked! :p

Pics?
 

toekramp

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Originally posted by: dderidex
I dunno....160lbs is....quite a 'well rounded' woman, if you get my meaning. Unless she's on the tall side.

Hell, *I* only weigh 155, and am 5'11" in moderately good shape (I exercise, but don't make a point of building muscle).

if you're 5'11" and 155 youre a skinnny bitch for sho