1.If you work with print and you don't know how to calibrate a monitor perhaps you should look into another line of work

If your device doesn't allow it then you should talk to the people who make it to update the firmware so that it can, the hardware is without a doubt capable of it.
2.Ink bleeds, any decent display does not. Also, you keep bringing up magazines as if they are the holy grail of print technology. They exhibit banding, poor color seperation, poor dynamic range, and overall rather poor sharpness compared to a vaguely decent photograph. 300dpi is a step. It is used for print magazines as a compromise between cost and quality- I don't think anyone in the print business would be assinine enough to try and claim it is the optimal setting for quality.
3.Not in the least. It is overrated because it is on a display with terrible response time, latency, and contrast. Pixel density is one element of a display, but it is only one element.
4. Walk into any high end A/V store and try exactly that. Ask them to choose between a 720p Pioneer Plasma and a 1080p LCD- see what they say.
5.Under .01ms to 5ms, it was a very slight exaggeration, but it was for the benefit of the RD, not OLED.
6.If the iPhone is going to play video or games then 5ms isn't fast enough. I still have a NEC FP2141SB-BK that I get to use when I want respectable speed, even the terrible quality wise TNs are clearly and noticeably slower then a CRT.
7. The whole BS line that Android is more laggy then iPhone may work on some, not so much on me. That is an entirely different topic, I'm talking about display technology.
8. Superior color range.*Vastly* superior speed. *Vastly* superior contrast.
IPS advantage- it can push higher nits(which can be useful if you enjoy reading things with sunlight glaring on it- I'd rather turn my wrist and avoid it).
9.Bookmark this thread. Bring it up in another 18 months. If Apple hasn't moved to OLED technology by that point I'll mail you $20(no joke). That will be the best example of OLED being a clearly superior technology.