There is some stark differences. Skin color requires no thought or action. It just is. Homosexuality is defined by what a person does, not what he or she looks like.
Wrong. Homosexuals just ARE homosexual as well. It may result in 'actions' - people have relationships based on who they are on sexual orientation - but homosexuality is an ATTRIBUTE of who they are just as race is. You are missing the point - what ABOUT race or sexual orientation justifies bigots being allowed to deny people rights based on those attributes? Why SHOULD blacks or gays or women or redheads have their rights denied?
Why should YOU feeling nauseous when you think about gay sex restrict gays' rights?
I have seen the arguments that this is like civil rights, but its not.
It's not like civil rights, is IS civil rights.
Civil Rights Act didn't make any new laws, it just guranteed that blacks would be given equal treatment under the amendments of the constitution.
Yes, it did make news laws, restricting bigots from limiting the rights of blacks.
Which is exactly like restricting bigots from restricting the rights of gays.
Blacks might have been from access to public facilities, housing, employment; gays have also had employment, and this is marriage. Same issue.
Not new ones, but the same ones.
EQUAL RIGHT to public facilities. To the front of the bus. To employment. To marry.
BLACK RIGHTS were for equality to the same things. GAY rights are for equality to the same things. What do you not get?
Gay rights are different because it requires an acceptance of ones different behavior.
What about gay 'behavior' justifies discrimination? Gay is WHO THEY ARE, an attribute like race. It results in behavior, most of the time, not always. What about that behavior justifies denying them rights? Are they murdering, are they stealing, are they selling crack cocaine, are they assaulting? No. They are loving who they love like anyone else, which does NOT justify you denying them rights, your nausea is YOUR PROBLEM just as the nausea a bigot feels seeing a black in the front seat of a bus is the BIGOT'S problem.
I have said this time and time again. You can't seperate the lifestyle of a gay person from being gay. But that seems to be the argument. I am not perfect and I do try to be fair in all situations with all people. Is my hangups because I am a staunch hetero alpha male? Is it because I have a religous belief? Or is it in my dna to reject what I know is not the norm. You among others are quick to judge and criticize, but at least in real life I try to deal with things in a correct way. I try educate and listen to the other side. At least I try, that is more than most. Will I ever change? Maybe not.....
That's to your credit. The thing is to recognize that YOUR repulsion - and frankly I have felt repulsion too - is NOT any reason to deny people born gay rights.
The reaction to people who are different - whether it be fear or anger or nausea - needs to be recognized for what it is, and not allowed to be expressed as legal discrimination.
This is a common societal issue - it comes out a lot in race, where one race feels superior to another - whether it be one variation of Asian, or of African, or of Native American, or betwen different major 'racial' groups; it comes out in genders, not only most often in the treatment of women as second-class (who could not vote the majority of American history), a bigoty masked as 'respect' (women are too noble to be forced to deal with the dirtiness in politics), or the Indian caste system, or sexual orientation...
It's all wrong. It all denies people equal rights for bigotry. And it's all hard to change, deeply ingrained in societies for hundreds and thousands of years, with excuses widely accepted for continuing it that 'sound good' to the bigots.