The HOA rules have to be reasonable. They can't force you to leave your home unsecured, they can't mandate that the exterior of your house has to be gold plated.
I was present once when an HOA sent the construction committee to tell an old guy he had to take down his unapproved patio cover. He told them he had the time and money to fight them until the day he died, and that if any one of them ever set foot on his property again he'd shoot them on site. They went back and approved his patio cover.
He was a crusty, cantankerous, bad tempered old bastard, I really liked him.
I was present once when an HOA sent the construction committee to tell an old guy he had to take down his unapproved patio cover. He told them he had the time and money to fight them until the day he died, and that if any one of them ever set foot on his property again he'd shoot them on site. They went back and approved his patio cover.
He was a crusty, cantankerous, bad tempered old bastard, I really liked him.