hmmm :(

[EvolutionWRC]

Originally posted by: pontifex
So I joined match.com and had a girl email me through the service. said she liked my profile. i emailed her back and we started emailing each other back and forth, just general chit-chat type stuff. She hasn't responded to the last email i sent to her. Now, I know its christmas and the holidays but she also hid her profile, so no one can see it. its not like there's any personal info in the profile either.

so i thinking 2 things could have happened.
pessimistic side: for some reason she decided she didn't want to keep talking to me or wanted to stop me from viewing her profile. why she would do this, i don't know. all our emails were was general conversation type stuff or get to know you type stuff. i didn't ask to meet yet or anything like that.

optimistic side: she really likes me and doesn't want other people contacting her through her profile. one thing she said about my profile was that i was honest in it and she says she was the same way. if thats true, i would think she would say something if she's not interested.

so yeah, i'm kinda worried. i thought i hit it off with this girl. if she hadn't hid her profile i would just think that she wasn't responding because of the holidays. or am i just really overthinking this and it means nothing at all.

There's your problem.....

EvolutionWRC

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC

Originally posted by: pontifex
So I joined match.com and had a girl email me through the service. said she liked my profile. i emailed her back and we started emailing each other back and forth, just general chit-chat type stuff. She hasn't responded to the last email i sent to her. Now, I know its christmas and the holidays but she also hid her profile, so no one can see it. its not like there's any personal info in the profile either.

so i thinking 2 things could have happened.
pessimistic side: for some reason she decided she didn't want to keep talking to me or wanted to stop me from viewing her profile. why she would do this, i don't know. all our emails were was general conversation type stuff or get to know you type stuff. i didn't ask to meet yet or anything like that.

optimistic side: she really likes me and doesn't want other people contacting her through her profile. one thing she said about my profile was that i was honest in it and she says she was the same way. if thats true, i would think she would say something if she's not interested.

so yeah, i'm kinda worried. i thought i hit it off with this girl. if she hadn't hid her profile i would just think that she wasn't responding because of the holidays. or am i just really overthinking this and it means nothing at all.

There's your problem.....

EvolutionWRC

yeah, and????
whats wrong with that? what would you suggest?

 

[Sukhoi]

Maybe you were too slow with her. It's so damned hard to tell with women.

 

[Xyclone]

Originally posted by: darkxshade
obligatory pics?

 

[Mo0o]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC

Originally posted by: pontifex
So I joined match.com and had a girl email me through the service. said she liked my profile. i emailed her back and we started emailing each other back and forth, just general chit-chat type stuff. She hasn't responded to the last email i sent to her. Now, I know its christmas and the holidays but she also hid her profile, so no one can see it. its not like there's any personal info in the profile either.

so i thinking 2 things could have happened.
pessimistic side: for some reason she decided she didn't want to keep talking to me or wanted to stop me from viewing her profile. why she would do this, i don't know. all our emails were was general conversation type stuff or get to know you type stuff. i didn't ask to meet yet or anything like that.

optimistic side: she really likes me and doesn't want other people contacting her through her profile. one thing she said about my profile was that i was honest in it and she says she was the same way. if thats true, i would think she would say something if she's not interested.

so yeah, i'm kinda worried. i thought i hit it off with this girl. if she hadn't hid her profile i would just think that she wasn't responding because of the holidays. or am i just really overthinking this and it means nothing at all.

There's your problem.....

EvolutionWRC

yeah, and????
whats wrong with that? what would you suggest?

reallife.com

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Mo0o

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC

Originally posted by: pontifex
So I joined match.com and had a girl email me through the service. said she liked my profile. i emailed her back and we started emailing each other back and forth, just general chit-chat type stuff. She hasn't responded to the last email i sent to her. Now, I know its christmas and the holidays but she also hid her profile, so no one can see it. its not like there's any personal info in the profile either.

so i thinking 2 things could have happened.
pessimistic side: for some reason she decided she didn't want to keep talking to me or wanted to stop me from viewing her profile. why she would do this, i don't know. all our emails were was general conversation type stuff or get to know you type stuff. i didn't ask to meet yet or anything like that.

optimistic side: she really likes me and doesn't want other people contacting her through her profile. one thing she said about my profile was that i was honest in it and she says she was the same way. if thats true, i would think she would say something if she's not interested.

so yeah, i'm kinda worried. i thought i hit it off with this girl. if she hadn't hid her profile i would just think that she wasn't responding because of the holidays. or am i just really overthinking this and it means nothing at all.

There's your problem.....

EvolutionWRC

yeah, and????
whats wrong with that? what would you suggest?

reallife.com

yeah, already tried that and their service sucks

 

[chuckywang]

Originally posted by: EvolutionWRC

Originally posted by: pontifex
So I joined match.com and had a girl email me through the service. said she liked my profile. i emailed her back and we started emailing each other back and forth, just general chit-chat type stuff. She hasn't responded to the last email i sent to her. Now, I know its christmas and the holidays but she also hid her profile, so no one can see it. its not like there's any personal info in the profile either.

so i thinking 2 things could have happened.
pessimistic side: for some reason she decided she didn't want to keep talking to me or wanted to stop me from viewing her profile. why she would do this, i don't know. all our emails were was general conversation type stuff or get to know you type stuff. i didn't ask to meet yet or anything like that.

optimistic side: she really likes me and doesn't want other people contacting her through her profile. one thing she said about my profile was that i was honest in it and she says she was the same way. if thats true, i would think she would say something if she's not interested.

so yeah, i'm kinda worried. i thought i hit it off with this girl. if she hadn't hid her profile i would just think that she wasn't responding because of the holidays. or am i just really overthinking this and it means nothing at all.

There's your problem.....

EvolutionWRC

That's not the problem at all.

 

[bmacd]

option 4: somebody at match.com was emailing you so you don't think their service was a complete waste. They gave you a little attention so you'd have faith in their service, and before they got too far in, they drop you.

-=bmacd=-

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: bmacd
option 4: somebody at match.com was emailing you so you don't think their service was a complete waste. They gave you a little attention so you'd have faith in their service, and before they got too far in, they drop you.

-=bmacd=-

we already went through this and its highly unlikely based on info she gave me.

 

[pontifex]

so i emailed this girl again yesterday and she replied back to me today!!
said the reason she hid her profile was because she was not a member of match.com anymore but she sent me this email via match.com. i didn't think you could email people unless you were a member. so either she rejoined or hasn't quit yet.

gave her my regular email again just in case so we'll see where it goes!

 

[apinomus]

Uhhhh, it's an e-mail match site. Don't get so worked up over it, man.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: apinomus
Uhhhh, it's an e-mail match site. Don't get so worked up over it, man.

yeah, i know, but i thought i had totally lost on this one and now i find out that maybe not. shes the only one that replies back to me out of the seevral girls i've emailed too, so thats gotta be worth something.

 

[pontifex]

well, so much for thinking my bad luck streak was over...
the reason she hid her profile wasn't because she was no longer a member of match.com (she still is a member) its because she started dating someone.

fvck me and my bad luck...

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Darthvoy
Or her husband found out and she took it off?

that's what i was thinking

 

[Asthmaboy]

lol@personals sites.

Seriously, it's the internet.
HUNDREDDS of THOUSANDS of liars out there, never be too trusting.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
lol@personals sites.

Seriously, it's the internet.
HUNDREDDS of THOUSANDS of liars out there, never be too trusting.

true... true... true....

but not all of them are liars.

just gotta move on when one fits the profile though.

 

[Asthmaboy]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
lol@personals sites.

Seriously, it's the internet.
HUNDREDDS of THOUSANDS of liars out there, never be too trusting.

true... true... true....

but not all of them are liars.

just gotta move on when one fits the profile though.

True.
I'm on SO many personals sites, I mainly do it for flirting and/or sex, though.
=D

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Asthmaboy

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
lol@personals sites.

Seriously, it's the internet.
HUNDREDDS of THOUSANDS of liars out there, never be too trusting.

true... true... true....

but not all of them are liars.

just gotta move on when one fits the profile though.

True.
I'm on SO many personals sites, I mainly do it for flirting and/or sex, though.
=D

i hope you're kidding...

 

[pontifex]

*sigh* get this...
so she tells me that she has been talking about getting married to this guy she has been seeing

so lets see...i get email from her on the 22nd i believe, saying she liked my profile
email goes back and forth a few times, everything seems cool
she hides her profile on the 24th or 25th
emails me back on the 3rd saying she hid it because she isn't a member anymore, but is still able to email me through match.com (can't email unless you're a member)
on the foruth she tells me she hid it because she's dating someone.
5th i find out that they've been talking about marriage.

so either she met this guy on the 22nd and already they want to get married by the 5th or she is trying to think of ways to get me to stop emailing her.

so much for her being "honest" like she says.

i have a feeling this whole match.com thing is going to be a waste of time and money...not one other girl i have contacted has replied to me. i've contacted at least 10 of them, if not more.

 

[Pepsi90919]

LET IT GO

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
LET IT GO

I HAVE!

just making my update in case anyone cares.

 

[mrrman]

Pontifex...most of these sites are a joke and waste of time...I would not put much hope in these places

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: mrrman
Pontifex...most of these sites are a joke and waste of time...I would not put much hope in these places

well, thats what i was thinking before i joined them, but i really don't have much else to rely on. if you've seen my other thread, you would know what i mean.