Hmm... Should I WARN my friend's BF?

MithShrike

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My sister told me today that our friend, who mind you is very attractive, was about to break up with her boyfriend. Now, I of course asked why and apparently her boyfriend had twisted her arm behind her back and dislocated our friend's shoulder. Now, I think that deserves a smackdown so do you people think I should warn him or just plain beat his pu$$y ass down?
 

EvilYoda

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Make sure he knows why you're kicking his ass while you're doing it. Or read it to him like his Mirandas while he's on the ground.
 

spp

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Originally posted by: Mith
My sister told me today that our friend, who mind you is very attractive, was about to break up with her boyfriend. Now, I of course asked why and apparently her boyfriend had twisted her arm behind her back and dislocated our friend's shoulder. Now, I think that deserves a smackdown so do you people think I should warn him or just plain beat his pu$$y ass down?

wtf?? were the in a fight or what? you didn't specify.
 

WinkOsmosis

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How do you know he really did that?


Edit: It doesn't matter. Have a talk with him but don't beat him down, then DH|TB
 

j@cko

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u sure can if you wanna spend some time in the cell for a night or two...
 

DannyBoy

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Why don't you be a REAL man and rip off his genitalia...with your teeth...and swallow...

Daym, kinda brings a whole new meaning to the term "Spit or swallow" :confused:
 

Heisenberg

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Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: j@cko
u sure can if you wanna spend some time in the cell for a night or two...

You get locked away for beating someone up over there? :confused:
I don't where you're from but that's called assault here. Of course he (the bf) would have to press charges for anything to happen.
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: j@cko
u sure can if you wanna spend some time in the cell for a night or two...

You get locked away for beating someone up over there? :confused:

You don't go to jail for beating someone up in England? ANd yet self defense is against the law... what a crazy place.
 

AaronB

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I will assume for a moment that you have told the story as it actually happened. (which I really don't)

If her BF really dislocated her shoulder than she went to the hospital. The doctor would have asked her what happened. If she wanted help she would have told him, the police could have been called AND THE PUNK WOULD HAVE DEFINATELY BEEN ARRESTED.

Obviously the arrest didn't happen so either this story is BS or she didn't implicate her bf and have him arrested. That would mean that she doesn't want help and I assure you if you attack her bf your "friend" will turn on you like a rabid mongoose.

I honestly learned this lesson the hard way and yes I am fvcking bitter about it.
 
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Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: j@cko
u sure can if you wanna spend some time in the cell for a night or two...

You get locked away for beating someone up over there? :confused:

You don't go to jail for beating someone up in England? ANd yet self defense is against the law... what a crazy place.

haha...thats too funny
 

j@cko

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Originally posted by: MrDingleDangle
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: j@cko
u sure can if you wanna spend some time in the cell for a night or two...

You get locked away for beating someone up over there? :confused:

You don't go to jail for beating someone up in England? ANd yet self defense is against the law... what a crazy place.

haha...thats too funny

crazy indeed..!
 

dolph

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Originally posted by: AaronB
I will assume for a moment that you have told the story as it actually happened. (which I really don't) If her BF really dislocated her shoulder than she went to the hospital. The doctor would have asked her what happened. If she wanted help she would have told him, the police could have been called AND THE PUNK WOULD HAVE DEFINATELY BEEN ARRESTED. Obviously the arrest didn't happen so either this story is BS or she didn't implicate her bf and have him arrested. That would mean that she doesn't want help and I assure you if you attack her bf your "friend" will turn on you like a rabid mongoose. I honestly learned this lesson the hard way and yes I am fvcking bitter about it.

that's some interesting logic... so because she didn't press charges against him, she doesn't want help? i think many domestic abuse victims might tell you differently. if what mith said is true, the boyfriend should be warned at very least.

special to iron woode: if a female friend of yours was roughed up by her boyfriend, would you stand idle? i sure as hell wouldn't.
 

Richdog

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I'd find out the whole story, then if he's to blame and the person who's shoulder he dislocated is a better friend than he is, warn him that if he does it again youre going to dislocate his. And if he takes that the wrong way and starts on you, give him a new face.:beer:
 

AaronB

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that's some interesting logic... so because she didn't press charges against him, she doesn't want help? i think many domestic abuse victims might tell you differently. if what mith said is true, the boyfriend should be warned at very least.

My logic comes from my personal experiences. Nothing more nothing less.

I saw my mother beaten several times while I was growing up. She had 3 well built brothers that were more than capable of handling the situation but she continued to go back to my father.

The last straw for me was a different situation.

I had a female friend that was dating/ living with a guy for 2/3 years. Late in their relationship she had let on that he had a temper and over the last couple of months that I was in contact with them she would often call me crying with this guy screaming at her in the background. Apparently he was regularly taking out whatever frustrations he had on her face too because she started to turn into one big bruise.

Anyway, I always told her to call the police but she claimed she would "work it out". I think she was afraid to be on her own.

The last time I talked directly to her she called me on the phone crying and pleading for me to come over because he was beating the hell out of her. I heard him in the background say something to the effect of "hang up the phone you stupid bitch!" and the line went dead.

Like a dumba$$ I went over there. He was pissed because I came, she was bleeding from the mouth and nose and things went WAY out of control from there. Both myself and the BF wound up going to the hospital.

While we were being checked out at the hospital my "friend" told the police that I had come over and attacked her and that her BF had been trying to defend her!

I was arrested, charged, and convicted of assault when this "friend" looked right in my face in court and testified against me.

Was I mad? Not at the time. I was depressed and near suicidal. I had never been so hurt in my entire life.

So I repeat. If she won't help herself than stay away.

 

GermyBoy

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Originally posted by: Iron Woode
I think you should mind your business. :|

Pussy men say that kind of stuff. Any man that hits a girl who isn't stronger than him, more manly than him, and doesn't have his size and weight, should be murdered.