#1. When you speak to a surgeon, they want to operate
#2. When you speak to a doctor, they prescribe pain meds
#3. When you speak to a chiropractor, they'll schedule endless adjustments
Basically, the problem you run into is that you can trust no one 100% to watch out for you. They are biased experts and will make decisions based on their expertise, which won't always be in your best interests. Sure, you can let him operate, but be aware that you may be worse off.
When I was 22 years old, I picked up a heavy object that I shouldn't have. I lost the ability to move my left foot because the swelling around the disc in my lower back caused what's called 'foot drop' syndrome. I was 22 and learned that I was human. I have bouts with it from time to time, but 13 years later, I don't take meds every day for it. I usually tweak it every year or two and take oral steroids if things get really bad along with some mild muscle relaxers like Skelaxin (short half-life).
I started running again 6 weeks or so ago and my back pain returned. Both of my hips were in terrible pain and my back had been popping and making all kinds of noises. The good news is that in forcing myself to run, I've started doing fire hydrants and donkey kicks in core workout that has strengthened my lower back muscles. Honestly, that's half of most people's problems...it take effort to work those muscles out. And by effort, I just mean, normal workouts don't touch them the way targeted core routines do.
If you just now ruptured the disc, give yourself 3-6 weeks to heal up. I suggest going to a Primary Care physician and staying off pain meds. Get a steroid dose pack or a shot if you're brave (I stick to the oral dose) and some Skelaxin. Try to get up and walk every 15-20 minutes. Rest on your chest with a pillow under your chest to help keep your spine in alignment. Don't lift over 20-30 lbs and be careful sitting and standing.