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......Her.

yllus

yllus

Elite Member & Lifer
You know that girl?
The one you see at school or work.
The one that just looks so great.
The one you would kill to just hold for a second.
The one who makes you feel all fluttery when you make eye contact.
The one that makes you stand a little straighter and walk a little funny when you stroll past her.
The one that you dream about.
The one you would rather have a perfect kiss with than a good lay.
The one that is sorta possible to get, but impossible in your mind.

To you, the perfect girl?
Did anybody get her?

(Reposted without permission from another forum. Still, I'd like to hear the replies.)
 
😛 sounds like the way I was before I actually got the courage to ask my current gf out.. 2 years ago... 😀

but then again.. it also sounds like the way I felt about a different girl earlier on that was dating my best friend.. ah well.. doens't matter now 🙂
 
Sorry to get you down there, Vespasian. Damn, you always seem depressed. Somebody buy this man a beer and/or some company for the night! 😉
 


<< Sorry to get you down there, Vespasian. Damn, you always seem depressed. Somebody buy this man a beer and/or some company for the night! 😉 >>


I know. I'm always miserable. Sorry. 😱
 
I had her...but she wasn't as great as she seemed. Seems that if you build someone up too much, they begin to believe that they're as great as you say they are, and they start to feel like they can do no wrong, and that you'll always be there for them, so they don't really need to tend to YOUR needs, they're happy to just let you devote your life to their happiness. Unfortunately, one day you wake up and realize that they're not making you happy, in fact they're not even TRYING. But now they're up on that pedistal you placed them on and they're out of reach, it's too late. You can keep the "perfect" girl or eventually give up and find someone who's still on the ground, and try not to put them on a pedistal. These lessons are hard to learn.
 
nope, she went back to DC on monday 🙁

but there is a really really hot girl in my class/group, but she's got a bf, oh well

looks like it's random bar hookups for me
 
I guess I should point out that this thread is not about a personal situation of mine, just a neat question to ask. There aren't enough girls in comp. sci. here anyways...



<< Yeah, the other hot chick got her, they are living happily ever after in California now. >>

haha
 


<< Yeah, the other hot chick got her, they are living happily ever after in California now. >>


You and I must know the same girl Sluggo 😕
 
Yep! She's my gf now. =)

dude, I totally know what you mean, and soon I get to pop the question to that very girl... I can't wait 🙂
 
You forgot 'The one who's cultural and religious background is totally different than yours, and therefor won't even give a relation a chance eventhough she likes you a lot too.' 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁

(Badly addicted to eachother too, neither can break the friendship, eventhough it hurts too much)
 


<< You forgot 'The one who's cultural and religious background is totally different than yours, and therefor won't even give a relation a chance eventhough she likes you a lot too.' 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁

(Badly addicted to eachother too, neither can break the friendship, eventhough it hurts too much) >>



I guarantee 100% it'll happen.
Debate with me all you want, it will happen one day. I have at LEAST 10 friends that have been in that exact same situation. Sit it out for now, just hold on. No matter what s/he says, it'll happen at some point. I'm showing 100% success rate on this, just keep being her friend. If there's an attraction already you have nothing to worry about, just wait. It will happen, and there's about a 50% chance that she'll be the one you give a ring to Good luck 😀 and congrats in advance
 
I just spent the last seven hours with her. I really hope this works out. I still can't get over that she told me she misses me when we're not together. It boggles my mind!
 


<< I had her...but she wasn't as great as she seemed. Seems that if you build someone up too much, they begin to believe that they're as great as you say they are, and they start to feel like they can do no wrong, and that you'll always be there for them, so they don't really need to tend to YOUR needs, they're happy to just let you devote your life to their happiness. Unfortunately, one day you wake up and realize that they're not making you happy, in fact they're not even TRYING. But now they're up on that pedistal you placed them on and they're out of reach, it's too late. You can keep the "perfect" girl or eventually give up and find someone who's still on the ground, and try not to put them on a pedistal. These lessons are hard to learn. >>



wow... did u read my mind?

Really sucks... Started out so good... now, nothing more than a girl still trying to stay on the pedestal... and look for others to keep her up there... The girl I fell for is not there now, or maybe never was there. 🙁
 


<< You forgot 'The one who's cultural and religious background is totally different than yours, and therefor won't even give a relation a chance eventhough she likes you a lot too.' 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁

(Badly addicted to eachother too, neither can break the friendship, eventhough it hurts too much) >>



I know exactly what you mean... I thought I was the only one in that situation. Still sort of in it... But I like to think that i'm over it.
 
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