help with my love life

Synth3t1c

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theres this girl: K and this girl: A. we were at A's house and K was there. A and a friend went in a room and hung out, and K and i went into another room - really, just kinda chillin. well now i learn that K wants to go out with me like start dating etc. problem - im jewish and shes catholic, and i try not to date out of my religion. what do i do?
 

The Batt?sai

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remember Jesus helped the Samaritan. Or was it the Samaritan that helped Jesus?

Either way God doesn't care what religion we are. I would say God's love is color blind. It's man's misinterpretation of God's love and so many other things that is responsible for the way the world is today, and the division and distance between all people.
 

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Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
theres this girl: K and this girl: A. we were at A's house and K was there. A and a friend went in a room and hung out, and K and i went into another room - really, just kinda chillin. well now i learn that K wants to go out with me like start dating etc. problem - im jewish and shes catholic, and i try not to date out of my religion. what do i do?

How is it ATOT's decision whether you break your own rules. At the very least, pics are required to make an educated choice.
 

Synth3t1c

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undersandable. and i dont do this for god i do it so my child will have a sense of personal identity if he or she choses to keep a religion.

and yes its very important to me shes a great gal
 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
undersandable. and i dont do this for god i do it so my child will have a sense of personal identity if he or she choses to keep a religion.

and yes its very important to me shes a great gal

Just raise the child to know both religions and show him/her it doesn't matter which they choose, because just like their parents, different religions can exist peacefully
 

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Your 18, you shouldn't care what religion she is. If you like her then go out with her, have fun, learn a thing or two, and don't worry about things like this until you are older and looking for a wife.
 

Synth3t1c

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Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
undersandable. and i dont do this for god i do it so my child will have a sense of personal identity if he or she choses to keep a religion.

and yes its very important to me shes a great gal

Just raise the child to know both religions and show him/her it doesn't matter which they choose, because just like their parents, different religions can exist peacefully

in all the cases ive seen a child raised with 2 religions never came with one prevailing one. religion is important to me because of the values it teaches. a child with no religion is a child i dont want to raise. im sorry


oh and i do believe in darwinism too, so dont h8
 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
undersandable. and i dont do this for god i do it so my child will have a sense of personal identity if he or she choses to keep a religion.

and yes its very important to me shes a great gal

Just raise the child to know both religions and show him/her it doesn't matter which they choose, because just like their parents, different religions can exist peacefully

in all the cases ive seen a child raised with 2 religions never came with one prevailing one. religion is important to me because of the values it teaches. a child with no religion is a child i dont want to raise. im sorry


oh and i do believe in darwinism too, so dont h8


lol? i don't believe in one or the other lol. i think people claim to know more than they think they do lol. i do believe that :D. well i wish you the best of luck. if its better just choose one religion for the child. i dont' know. best of luck though
 
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i wouldnt let religion get in the way

long as you both respect each others beliefs it should be fine. maybes it wont please your parents, but then its not the olden days anymore....its 2006
 

Moonbeam

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Well you both doubtless believe in the only true religion so you have something in common
 

MrColin

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You should discuss which of you will convert if the relationship goes to an apocolyptic conclusion (marriage). Try posing a hypothetical or metaphor first and see how she reacts.
BTW if she stays Jewish and you Catholic, I think your kids will technically be Jewish. Also, there is no such thing as Darwinism, its evolution. Lastly, god is just pretend so lighten up.
 

Synth3t1c

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Originally posted by: MrColin
You should discuss which of you will convert if the relationship goes to an apocolyptic conclusion (marriage). Try posing a hypothetical or metaphor first and see how she reacts.
BTW if she stays Jewish and you Catholic, I think your kids will technically be Jewish. Also, there is no such thing as Darwinism, its evolution. Lastly, god is just pretend so lighten up.

1.) im jewish and shes christian. in judiasm its the mother (you are correct there) who gives the child the religion).
2.) thats a good idea, the discussion
3.) well whatever i believe in divine evolution
4.) thank you for the opinion on a topic that i didnt want your say in :)
 

xSauronx

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Originally posted by: Synth3t1c
undersandable. and i dont do this for god i do it so my child will have a sense of personal identity if he or she choses to keep a religion.

and yes its very important to me shes a great gal

youre too young to think about having a kid

just think about not having one

and when you do

dont make their identity dependent on their religion

there, problem solved, wrap it up and nail the chick.
 

Synth3t1c

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Originally posted by: RBachman
Hrm? I was just making a post as legible as the OP.

how was my post not legible?

edit: not using capitals does not equal:
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