So I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me and I end up speaking to this new "guy" on the phone one night, when I redialed after she hung up (was leaving) and he answered, JUST GET OVER, I'm HORNY! This was about three months ago and I was cool with that, although we had been dating for 3 years and I was crazy about her, but you know, cheating just isn't cool.
So anyways, I called her out on it next time I saw her and she said it was her but no, she went home. I told her that I called and talked to this jerko down in Florida where she was on this trip. Next she gets peeved because I don't "trust her". Like I had REASON to! So I get some of the story and this and that, and finally she emails me all of the older emails she had with him. I'm talking hot and steamy emails with polish sausages, etc.
Next about a week later my buddy calls me and tells me he just got a lot of older emails from my ex. He said that she also said that I "made" her do this crap and this and that. Next I start getting calls from a LOT of my friends regarding these emails, and I'm not sure who got it because it was BCC'd to anyone. They thought it was hot and funny though, so all was well.
A week goes by, I'm forgetting as best as possible. THEN...I get a lady friend calling because I wrote this email to her boyfriend about how she treats him wrong, and I SENT it. I'm sorry, but this ex of mine hacked my hotmail account and sending my sent mail to people that don't deserve it. I was called into the boss this morning about some emails I sent to my family explaing how stupid the idiot marketing people we have are. This may jeopardize my job, and probably already has. Is there is anything I can do legally to make her pay for what she did. I don't want to stoop to her level because she is a loser.
Any way to find out which IPs logged into my account? Is there a way to contact Microsoft with this sort of situation? Do they track IPs or anything? I really need something in hard evidence by Wednesday when I consult with my attorney.
I'm thinking a personal civil suit of $1 million for ruining my reputation. That'd show her! I don't want to send her to jail, but is there any sort of criminal charge I can "threaten" unless she stays away? And no, as well all know (from Next Friday), restraining orders don't work.
Anyone have any ideas of what I can do? Are there Internet laws regarding idiots ruining my life and hacking accounts? Even if I have the IPs though, how would I prove it, etc?
I'm also in another state than she is.
Thank you all for your help, I really need it!
Peace,
GermyBoy
So anyways, I called her out on it next time I saw her and she said it was her but no, she went home. I told her that I called and talked to this jerko down in Florida where she was on this trip. Next she gets peeved because I don't "trust her". Like I had REASON to! So I get some of the story and this and that, and finally she emails me all of the older emails she had with him. I'm talking hot and steamy emails with polish sausages, etc.
Next about a week later my buddy calls me and tells me he just got a lot of older emails from my ex. He said that she also said that I "made" her do this crap and this and that. Next I start getting calls from a LOT of my friends regarding these emails, and I'm not sure who got it because it was BCC'd to anyone. They thought it was hot and funny though, so all was well.
A week goes by, I'm forgetting as best as possible. THEN...I get a lady friend calling because I wrote this email to her boyfriend about how she treats him wrong, and I SENT it. I'm sorry, but this ex of mine hacked my hotmail account and sending my sent mail to people that don't deserve it. I was called into the boss this morning about some emails I sent to my family explaing how stupid the idiot marketing people we have are. This may jeopardize my job, and probably already has. Is there is anything I can do legally to make her pay for what she did. I don't want to stoop to her level because she is a loser.
Any way to find out which IPs logged into my account? Is there a way to contact Microsoft with this sort of situation? Do they track IPs or anything? I really need something in hard evidence by Wednesday when I consult with my attorney.
I'm thinking a personal civil suit of $1 million for ruining my reputation. That'd show her! I don't want to send her to jail, but is there any sort of criminal charge I can "threaten" unless she stays away? And no, as well all know (from Next Friday), restraining orders don't work.
Anyone have any ideas of what I can do? Are there Internet laws regarding idiots ruining my life and hacking accounts? Even if I have the IPs though, how would I prove it, etc?
I'm also in another state than she is.
Thank you all for your help, I really need it!
Peace,
GermyBoy
I don't think that there is any way of proving that she did anything. I would just abandon the account. What is your employer doing searching your private hotmail account anyway? Change all your passwords and go slash the tires on her car. Preferably when she is at her new boyfriend's house. Maybe write some nasty stuff on her car about her with permanent marker. Then call the cops and tell them that you broke up with her and she threatened you will all sorts of stuff and that you might need protection because she really lost it. If she calls the cops, your word will be taken over hers (at least at first) because you called first. If she does anything else, you can call the cops and say that you think she did it. Get a restraining order against her, then follow her around (but don't make it obvious). When you see her in the store or something, make a big fuss about the restraining order and how she must leave the store immediatly. Make her regret it all for the rest of her life!
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