Help me with an important decision (update)

BigToque

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Here's the story,

I'm close friends with this family that has a widowed mother and 3 young daughters. They live down the street from me (I'm living with my mom).

Anyway, I stopped by the house for the first time in like a year or so just to say hi and see how things were. We got to talking about my family and how everything has gone to hell at my house.

Anyway, she asked me if I would consider moving in with them.

I love these girls they're so nice and friendly (and HOT)

The oldest daughter is 21, and in a 2 year relationship.
The youngest is 15 and well, she's 15, enough said.
The middle daughter is 19. I've always liked this girl and I think she has (had) a crush on me before.

Anyway, they're all swiss and blonde w/ blue eyes.

Aside from the boner I'd probably have 24/7, what do you think of the situation? She doesn't want rent (although I'd definitely find a way to pitch in a few hundred every month).

The family pic (the 19 y/o is in the white)
15 and 19 y/o
19 y/o

I'm very tempted because my house is absolutely retarded. I want out.

*Update 2006-03-02 - Not much of an update*

Not much of an update yet. I went over to their house again last night and talked with her mom and youngest daughter for a couple of hours.

All the girls know about the situation and are fine with me moving in.

I still haven't decided what I want to do. I think I'm leaning towards not moving in just because I don't want to intrude on their space. But, when they seem eager to have me, turning it down might be rude.

I dunno yet...
 

Skunkwourk

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don't have to pay rent? sounds too good to be true...it also sounds like a recipie for disaster...

 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Eghck
don't have to pay rent? sounds too good to be true...it also sounds like a recipie for disaster...

Well, I'd still be paying something. I'd feel bad for staying there for free. I'd probably buy the food for them or something.
 

BigToque

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The only downside is that the 1 guy 4 girl fantasy turns out to be hell especially when they start PMSing :laugh:
 

ironcrotch

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Nah, living situations like these almost never work out. The common thing that I notice is that they destroy relationships. If things are that bad at home, I'd suggest finding a place on your own.
 

Frosty3799

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how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...
 

nboy22

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Two words... HIT THAT. But in reality you probably don't have a chance, But that's what dreams are for.
 

wedi42

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how old are you?
and why do they want you to live there, just to have a man around?
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.

I don't think it would be a stretch to think she would happy if I dated her daughter.
 

minendo

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.
Sounds like mommy is looking for a live-in sex toy.
 

BigJ

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.

I don't think it would be a stretch to think she would happy if I dated her daughter.

Date the daughter and tap the mom on the side. She's not bad looking.
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: johngute
how old are you?
and why do they want you to live there, just to have a man around?

I'm 23.

The way it came up was that they had their alarm go off in the house a little while ago and said it would be nice to have a guy around.
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.

I don't think it would be a stretch to think she would happy if I dated her daughter.

Date the daughter and tap the mom on the side. She's not bad looking.

;)

 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
No matter what anybody else says in this thread, it's a really sh!tty idea.

It wouldn't be permanent. Maybe a year tops. Just till I get on my feet.
 

Skunkwourk

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.

I don't think it would be a stretch to think she would happy if I dated her daughter.

Yeah but what happens if it goes south? Then you'll be back here writing up another YAGT thread. If you have the means to move out, I would move elsewhere but continue regular visits to their place. Maybe ask the girl you like out. That in my mind is win win, mother still loves you, you show independence with your own place and can have some privacy if needed, and you get to leave your current situation at home...
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: Frosty3799
how old are you?

and would the family find in unacceptable if you were to hook up with this 19 y/o?

remember that the opinion you are gathering here is based mostly on horny computer geeks...

The mother loves me. We get along so well. Hell, I think I get along with her better then anyone in my entire family.

I don't think it would be a stretch to think she would happy if I dated her daughter.

Yeah but what happens if it goes south? Then you'll be back here writing up another YAGT thread. If you have the means to move out, I would move elsewhere but continue regular visits to their place. Maybe ask the girl you like out. That in my mind is win win, mother still loves you, you show independence with your own place and can have some privacy if needed, and you get to leave your current situation at home...

So what if I just leave dating out of it and just be a friendly house guest?
 

shortylickens

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I'm glad you said something, because (aside from the mom) I honestly couldnt tell who was 15, 19 and 21.
We just had a thread on the horrors of living with females. General consesus is "dont do it".

Incidentally I made that my work wallpaper and now stare at it all day.
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
I'm glad you said something, because (aside from the mom) I honestly couldnt tell who was 15, 19 and 21.
We just had a thread on the horrors of living with females. General consesus is "dont do it".

Incidentally I made that my work wallpaper and now stare at it all day.

You're kidding right?