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Help me understand this date

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Triforceofcourage

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Ok guys I had the date on Saturday and it went pretty well for one exception. The dinner went well and going to play pool went well. I had her laughing practically all night. Around 11:00 I was getting bored with pool so I suggested we go to the park. She said ok and I got lost so we are were driving around for like 25 minutes because I didn't know where the hell I was going. lol. She was laughing the whole time and thought it was pretty damn funny. She even said this would be a good story to tell her friends so I am guessing her friends think I am a jackass also. lol I was pretty embarrassed so I just went to drop her home.

And surprisingly she asked to see what I was doing tomorrow because she wanted to do something. Now my question I looked like a jackass driving around for like 25 minutes not knowing where the hell I am going and she wants to make plans for the next day with me? Does looking like a jackass win bonus points with the ladies? lol
 
Err...as I read it, you actually scored points for acting retarded. I don't see how you came off like a jackass.
 
You forget that women like to nurture their partners. So when they see you do something incompetently, the thing that runs through their mind is "Awwww, isn't that cute?". Then when she has the ring on her finger you'll be b!tched at for the rest of your life.
 
Well getting lost doesn't really count as being a jackass. You just come off as the bumbling nice guy that tries really hard to make the girl happy.
 
You're thinking way to much about this. If she wants to hang out, then hang out. If you had fun while driving around then that's all that matters.
 
Perhaps she liked the fact that you drove around in the park for 25 minutes lost and didn't use it as an excuse to pull over and maul her. That might have been nervous laughter in the car and respect and interest at the end of the night
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Ok guys I had the date on Saturday and it went pretty well for one exception. The dinner went well and going to play pool went well. I had her laughing practically all night. Around 11:00 I was getting bored with pool so I suggested we go to the park. She said ok and I got lost so we are were driving around for like 25 minutes because I didn't know where the hell I was going. lol. She was laughing the whole time and thought it was pretty damn funny. She even said this would be a good story to tell her friends so I am guessing her friends think I am a jackass also. lol I was pretty embarrassed so I just went to drop her home.

And surprisingly she asked to see what I was doing tomorrow because she wanted to do something. Now my question I looked like a jackass driving around for like 25 minutes not knowing where the hell I am going and she wants to make plans for the next day with me? Does looking like a jackass win bonus points with the ladies? lol
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get over your insecurities and take the girl out.

jeez, she's into you and wants to see you again. No you didn't look like a dumb-ass.

A good time is what you make of it...and driving around talking/laughing was a good time for you guys.

It just a girl dude, not some magical unicorn that you must chant and and say a spell to capture.
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I guess then I am good to go for the next date even though I probably won''t be able to live the whole getting lost thing for 25 minutes down.
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Talk to your shrink about that one.
😉

She's into you. Now show no weakness.
 
DUDE, three things:

1. You made her laugh all night. Most women rate Humor as the number 1 quality they look for in a guy.

2. She wants to spend more time with you tomorrow. So at a minimum, she doesn't think your a Level three Sex Offender.

3. Dude, don't over-analyze and play your self out of the game. You hit a Homaaaah.

4. Most guys looking for a girl/date here in ATF would kill (well not literally) to have a 1st date go this 'well'.


Good luck Chief :thumbsup:, and keep us updated what happens next time. BTW, for the shallow in all of us, what does she look like? Hottie material?
 
When she said she wanted to do something with you the next day, does it also involve one of her close friends?
 
Of course not lol. Whatever events that shine out your personality and sense of humer is always a +. It was more important how you both acted when you got lost. I'd say you meet a very charmful young lady and hit it off well. Congrads.
 
Yes guys, she is a hotty thats for sure. Now that I hear you guys talk about it, the date didn't seem to go that bad afterall. I guess a little humor at my expense could be helpful when hotties are around 🙂
 
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