OMG, folks, I logged on and saw all the replies.... O_O
I naively assumed this could be a fun project to undertake: a SFF HTPC with an eight-core CPU.
Right now, the board is mated to an unlocked Phenom II X4 B40 and 4GB DDR2.
I was thinking jumping to an FX and 8GB DDR3 was feasible.
I'm also a bit of an AMD fan (helping the underdog and all), so you could say I was biased.
I read a bit more in the meantime (thanks for the links some of you posted!), and I now agree with what seems to be the general consensus: this is not worth pursuing further. Aside from the memory bus limitations, the motherboard is only SATAII, so the present combination is probably the most one powerful/balanced one could hope for.
Incidentally, I must also (sadly) agree with those pointing out the heat problems on lower-spec'd mobos paired with FX chips... I've seen the heatsinks on an AMD 970 chipset going to 70 degrees Celsius (measured with an infrared thermometre), but I thought it was just a flaky board. When I was reading your replies, a completely different picture emerged.
Thank you all for your contributions!
I agree, the FX are not the way to go for SFF. Way too much heat and lackluster efficiency (unless manually cpufreq-set downclocking or $$$ liquid cooling) on any FX 8xxx (and all/most the FXs).
In a normal sized matx tower, they make great office machines; the multitasking is excellent; preferable in high load use over the A series which lack L3 and cores.
IMHO there's a lot of fun to be had in scrounging together spare parts and spending under $100 (or $50 or your price prefs) and making a nice workable useful system. But given that you already have a phenom II with four cores that's better matched to the caliber motherbird... you already almost have that. I think all that's missing is another 4GB of DDR2. Or you can get by somewhat comfortably on 6GB for a little while longer by adding 2GB.
The 65W Opteron would have some advantages over the 95W Phenom II, but the downside is you would waste that 4gb ddr2, trade in single thread for multithread perf, and need to sink in the cost the upgrade (cpu+ddr3). Overclocking is excluded due to small form factor. So for most this is all-in-all not worth it.
(As with ddr3, you can also recycle ddr2 sodimm laptop memory in desktops using sodimm memory adapters. It's a little bit more expensive for ddr2 (due rarer low volume sales) than for ddr3, which runs under $5 per adapter, but it would still be worth it if you have free 4GB+ ddr2 sodimms. As in any case, the most important thing is to make sure the voltages across all slots matches. )