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Help: Im a girl. I find it very difficult to make friends with other chicks.

Originally posted by: Juniper
But its easier for me to relate with guys. Do I need help?

My girlfriend is the same way. Anyway, here's not the place to make friends with other girls 🙂
 
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welcome to being a normal girl.

 
I know girls who "just don't get along with other girls", nothing bad about it. Sometimes it's hard to break out of a circle of friends or people you know, depending on who you hang out with. Bottom line: do what you're most comfortable/happy with 🙂 If you have a good time with a bunch of guys, who cares? 🙂
 
Originally posted by: GirlFriday
No, you don't, most girls are bitches anyway. I prefer men too myself. 😉

ditto on that one.

Have many girls that don't have many friends with girls. They all bitch and don't get on but with guys theres none of that bitchness........

 
I know many like you...in fact, that's pretty much the only kind of girl most guys I know can stand for very long. What part is hard to relate to, just their interests?
 
id like to add that me and one of my girls had this conversation and its cuz you just cant trust most girls. why? because they are too influenced by boys.

its sad but true.
 
My life's experience has taught me that girls are highly competitive with each other and will suffer no rivals the way most guys do. Hence many girls tend to alienate other girls based on this pretext. Notice I say many girls as women tend to be more mature and self-realized 🙂
 
<cock-a-mamy theory>

Women are far more social creatures than men are IMO...
Women who are strongly independant thinkers, will have difficulty relating to the seemingly vapid socializing most women participate in. I say seemingly vapid because I don't doubt it fulfills a legitimate purpose.. however blind to that I may be in my maleness...

Perhaps some portion of your thought process is more masculine in nature.

I can't stand what I consider to be insincere socializing... it's horribly discomforting. It doesn't bother my wife at all...

</cock-a-mamy theory>
 
Originally posted by: Juniper
But its easier for me to relate with guys. Do I need help?

Bah, I think you're normal. Most girls are extraordinarily competitive with other girls, and are emotionally and socially immature. Just enjoy yourself. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: eakers
id like to add that me and one of my girls had this conversation and its cuz you just cant trust most girls. why? because they are too influenced by boys.

its sad but true.

Which is why a gay man is a woman's best friend.
 
Originally posted by: eakers
id like to add that me and one of my girls had this conversation and its cuz you just cant trust most girls. why? because they are too influenced by boys.

its sad but true.
Er well maybe. I can't in honesty attribute the trust problem to anything like ingrown deviousness in women or that they're easily influenced. It just seems that idle minds breed idle talk, and light-hearted trashing/bitching about whatever or whomever begins. Word always eventually spreads about who said what and little slivers of hatred get embedded everywhere.

Guys on the other hand couldn't care less about what other guys are up to. Working at a Zellers? That's cool. Dating a sleazy local stripper? Whatever man, your life! Then we go back to whatever project we're currently working on...like staring into the hood of a car or sawing miscellaneous pieces of wood. Other people's lives just aren't as interesting.
 
Sully if you are saying men are to self-absorbed to give a sh*t then I couldn't agree more 😀
 
Originally posted by: DAPUNISHER
Sully if you are saying men are to self-absorbed to give a sh*t then I couldn't agree more 😀

Mwahahaha.... 🙂 So, so true.

<--- self-absorbed, and proud of it. Well, sometimes.
 
Originally posted by: DAPUNISHER
Sully if you are saying men are to self-absorbed to give a sh*t then I couldn't agree more 😀
Pretty much! 😀 Now where'd I put that damn glue gun...
 
I know a few girls like you. They wonder the same thing, but don't mind it.

I think guys are easier to just go out and have fun with...
 
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