Help! I have an internet stalker!

[TheNiceGuy]

Well, stalker may not be the right word, but I don't know what to call this twerp.
To make a long story short, I live in a foreign country for work, and there is a site forum that I visit almost daily where other exxpats talk about work, life, love, anything. And it is pretty loosly moderated, which is fine, so i keep my annonymity. Anyway, one guy i know in 'real life' breached my anonymity and is sending really nasty comments out, and hinting at posting my name and address on the site. I am quite upset. what can I do?

 

[intogamer]

report

 

[larry89]

Beat the living hell out of him.

 

[apologetic]

post everything you know about him here

 

[yankeesfan]

Report him.

 

[Rip the Jacker]

Get his IP address.
Find out his location.
Get a bat and go to his place.
Threaten to beat his ass up if he doesnt stop.

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: ItmPls
Get his IP address.
Find out his location.
Get a bat and go to his place.
Threaten to shove it up his his ass up if he doesnt stop.

Fixed.

 

[TheNiceGuy]

Oh man, I am actualy at that point. I know who it is, and he conviently moved to the other end of the country a couple of weeks ago, therefore the bravado i think.

 

[Biggerhammer]

Is he also an expat? He should know better than to ruffle the smal group that is like him.

 

[Conky]

I have a guy who stalks me too. Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:

 

[eakers]

stop going to that website? report him to his IP?

I've done both and they are the most effective.

 

[yourdeardaniel]

stop going to site and get back to work.

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:

I just want to be your friend....

 

[Nitemare]

just bookmarking for later stalking pointers...

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: eakers
stop going to that website? report him to his IP?

I've done both and they are the most effective.

You'll never escape me. We will be together. :lips:

 

[BlackAdam]

Lay off the ATOT!

 

[TheNiceGuy]

Thanks guys.
I guess I was a bit shook up, and not sure how this would escalte. As I mentioned, no name/address was posted thus far. Just a couple of private details.
At this point I am mainly upset because this person knows my real identity, thus defeating the point of the site (at least for me). Like most users there, I value my anonymity. This frees me up to talk about a lot of personal/work issues like I can't normaly, because the English speaking expat community is so small here. This guys seems to be trying to find out who people on the site are in real life, and spends hours everyday scanning/cross checking what everyone posts. It has ruined the ffun of going there ;( .

I contacted the web master to block anymore messages from him, but I still have 2 years of personal info on that site that can be accessed. And most of all, I don't feel comfortable to post there anymore . This site is the only one of it's kind in this country, and I am soo sad that I have lost it as a resource:thumbsdown:.

 

[AUMM]

Originally posted by: TheNiceGuy
Thanks guys.
I guess I was a bit shook up, and not sure how this would escalte. As I mentioned, no name/address was posted thus far. Just a couple of private details.
At this point I am mainly upset because this person knows my real identity, thus defeating the point of the site (at least for me). Like most users there, I value my anonymity. This frees me up to talk about a lot of personal/work issues like I can't normaly, because the English speaking expat community is so small here. This guys seems to be trying to find out who people on the site are in real life, and spends hours everyday scanning/cross checking what everyone posts. It has ruined the ffun of going there ;( .

I contacted the web master to block anymore messages from him, but I still have 2 years of personal info on that site that can be accessed. And most of all, I don't feel comfortable to post there anymore . This site is the only one of it's kind in this country, and I am soo sad that I have lost it as a resource:thumbsdown:.

maybe start another account with a new username at that site?

 

[rhino56]

make a new name as a girl and keep him so occupied that he wont have time to do any of that. when he is so in love with you and looking forward to meeting you tell him your age, 16, then go to meet him for the date because im sure he will say okay anyways and have him arrested for child stalking. case closed.


<< dangerously evil mind lol

 

[SofaKing]

wow..

 

[rhino56]

i know lots of women also that i could get to take pics if he said take a pic of you with a note to prove its you.

 

[Mirko]

Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:

haha i find u again.

 

[rhino56]

Originally posted by: Mirko

Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:

haha i find u again.

LMAO

 

[eminemrh25]

post his personal stuff if he does it....

shoot.. put a website deticated on how gay he is with his dog....

 

[Sentinel]

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