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Help! I have an internet stalker!

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TheNiceGuy

Golden Member
Well, stalker may not be the right word, but I don't know what to call this twerp.
To make a long story short, I live in a foreign country for work, and there is a site forum that I visit almost daily where other exxpats talk about work, life, love, anything. And it is pretty loosly moderated, which is fine, so i keep my annonymity. Anyway, one guy i know in 'real life' breached my anonymity and is sending really nasty comments out, and hinting at posting my name and address on the site. I am quite upset. what can I do?
 
Oh man, I am actualy at that point. I know who it is, and he conviently moved to the other end of the country a couple of weeks ago, therefore the bravado i think.
 
I have a guy who stalks me too. 🙁 Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:
 
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. 🙁 Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:
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🙁

I just want to be your friend....
 
Originally posted by: eakers
stop going to that website? report him to his IP?

I've done both and they are the most effective.
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You'll never escape me. We will be together. :lips:
 
Thanks guys.
I guess I was a bit shook up, and not sure how this would escalte. As I mentioned, no name/address was posted thus far. Just a couple of private details.
At this point I am mainly upset because this person knows my real identity, thus defeating the point of the site (at least for me). Like most users there, I value my anonymity. This frees me up to talk about a lot of personal/work issues like I can't normaly, because the English speaking expat community is so small here. This guys seems to be trying to find out who people on the site are in real life, and spends hours everyday scanning/cross checking what everyone posts. It has ruined the ffun of going there ;( .

I contacted the web master to block anymore messages from him, but I still have 2 years of personal info on that site that can be accessed. And most of all, I don't feel comfortable to post there anymore 🙁. This site is the only one of it's kind in this country, and I am soo sad that I have lost it as a resource:thumbsdown:.
 
Originally posted by: TheNiceGuy
Thanks guys.
I guess I was a bit shook up, and not sure how this would escalte. As I mentioned, no name/address was posted thus far. Just a couple of private details.
At this point I am mainly upset because this person knows my real identity, thus defeating the point of the site (at least for me). Like most users there, I value my anonymity. This frees me up to talk about a lot of personal/work issues like I can't normaly, because the English speaking expat community is so small here. This guys seems to be trying to find out who people on the site are in real life, and spends hours everyday scanning/cross checking what everyone posts. It has ruined the ffun of going there ;( .

I contacted the web master to block anymore messages from him, but I still have 2 years of personal info on that site that can be accessed. And most of all, I don't feel comfortable to post there anymore 🙁. This site is the only one of it's kind in this country, and I am soo sad that I have lost it as a resource:thumbsdown:.
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maybe start another account with a new username at that site?
 
make a new name as a girl and keep him so occupied that he wont have time to do any of that. when he is so in love with you and looking forward to meeting you tell him your age, 16, then go to meet him for the date because im sure he will say okay anyways and have him arrested for child stalking. case closed.


<< dangerously evil mind lol
 
i know lots of women also that i could get to take pics if he said take a pic of you with a note to prove its you.

 
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. 🙁 Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:
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haha i find u again.
 
Originally posted by: Mirko
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I have a guy who stalks me too. 🙁 Not a whole lot anyone can do... I just keep ignoring him and hoping he will move on to his next victim, lol.

Welcome to the intarweb. :roll:
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haha i find u again.
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LMAO
 
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