HELP! 15 year old neise living with me for 2 weeks.

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waggy

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
Originally posted by: yllus
I think it's weird that you described a blood relation straight off as "beautiful".
Why?
Dunno. Just a feeling. He did follow it up with "Some of the cloths she wears kill me..."

Teenage girls are dressing sluttier than ever these days.

yeap and they start early too!
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
Originally posted by: yllus
I think it's weird that you described a blood relation straight off as "beautiful".
Why?
Dunno. Just a feeling. He did follow it up with "Some of the cloths she wears kill me..."

Teenage girls are dressing sluttier than ever these days.
Indeed.

You can't help it. For men, it's basically subconcious.. especially the way our society shuns anything sexual.

You see a beautiful girl in a skimpy outfit, your eyes are drawn to it. It doesen't matter if she's 15, or 25.. although in the former case, you probably catch yourself.
 

bmacd

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
Originally posted by: yllus
I think it's weird that you described a blood relation straight off as "beautiful".
Why?
Dunno. Just a feeling. He did follow it up with "Some of the cloths she wears kill me..."

Teenage girls are dressing sluttier than ever these days.

amen to that :beer:

-=bmacd=-
 

Amused

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You all may think that's a good thing (teenage girls dressing like cheap sluts)... until that teenage girl is YOUR daughter (or niece, as it may be).
 

halik

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ummm you sound like you're 15 yourself....

"Some of the cloths she wears kill me" no hablo engles?
 

PanzerIV

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If her mother allows her to wear those clothes out then there isn't much you can do about it. Why is she bringing guys over after only three days? I hope she already lives nearby and knew these guys beforehand. That is one thing I would monitor, though. Make sure you know what they are up to when they are at your home, although I wouldn't really like a bunch of guys coming over like that.
All in all just make sure you know where she's going when she leaves so she doesn't mistakenly think she can go out and do whatever she wants just because you're in charge and that you know who is coming by and are around.
 

So

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Originally posted by: halik
ummm you sound like you're 15 yourself....

"Some of the cloths she wears kill me" no hablo engles?

Um...I'm a grammar Nazi, but that looks like a typo to me...god, I hope that's a typo.
 

xXped0thugXx

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use your best judgement. Try and think back to when you were 15 and make a judgement that way, although when you were 15 and how she is 15 now there are obviously differences in what society believes to be proper. If you act like she is your own daughter then perhaps you will have a feeling on what she can and cannot do, who she can bring over, what she can dress like. Dont limit her too much because odds are shes going to do what she wants anyways but dont let her get out of control. Be the cool uncle but have some discipline.
 

Pliablemoose

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First off, relax, she already has parents & hopefully some parenting.

Take her shopping for clothes, jewelery, let her rent some videos, no long distance calls, buy her an accessory for her cell phone, like an extra battery. Keep the bathroom door closed.;)
 

User1001

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Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: halik
ummm you sound like you're 15 yourself....

"Some of the cloths she wears kill me" no hablo engles?

Um...I'm a grammar Nazi, but that looks like a typo to me...god, I hope that's a typo.


It should be "no hablo ingles" assuming you wanted to put the verb in the first person.
 

Kipper

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Originally posted by: Turfzilla
What makes you think im 13?

Your postcount. :p

I say you lay down the line and say: "These are my rules."

If she acts up, call parents. She's not your problem.
 

DaiShan

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Originally posted by: yllus
I think it's weird that you described a blood relation straight off as "beautiful".

Wait why? If he'd said doable I'd be very worried, but beautiful? Big difference in being able to see beauty and actually being physically attracted to someone.
 

skace

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Originally posted by: Turfzilla
What makes you think im 13?

Seriously, how old are you. We won't laugh if you are 73 or something, theres others that are 73.
 

Turfzilla

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Oh come on people use your f*cking heads. Yes she lives near by, my kids are not at the teenage years, mine are still crawling around a crying. So ad my two boys to the picture and a 15 year old niece. It becomes quite the problem. I was looking for some help from someone who had the experience. By the way in 1996 I graduated with a M.M. degree in Music Education. Thats a masters degree for those of you who haven't been there yet.
 
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Tell her if she brings boys over, they better not touch her or you'll chop his dick off. I have 2 litle girls, and I am fearing the day they start dating. I plan on cleaning my shot gun everytime they bring a date over or a date comes to pick them up.

Just go out and buy her beer and weed, that way she will think you are the coolest, and maybe she can hook you up with some of her older friends.
 

PanzerIV

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Originally posted by: Turfzilla
Oh come on people use your f*cking heads. Yes she lives near by, my kids are not at the teenage years, mine are still crawling around a crying. So ad my two boys to the picture and a 15 year old niece. It becomes quite the problem. I was looking for some help from someone who had the experience. By the way in 1996 I graduated with a M.M. degree in Music Education. Thats a masters degree for those of you who haven't been there yet.

What was wrong with my advice of keeping tabs on where she goes and make sure you know what she's up to when she has these guy friends over? Unlike most of these posters I actually do have kids.
 

RossMAN

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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: yllus
I think it's weird that you described a blood relation straight off as "beautiful".

Why? All my nieces (I have 5 ranging from 4 to 19 years old) are the most beautiful girls I've ever seen.

Pretty and beautiful are OK. If he said "sexy" then you might want to worry.

I think "attractive" would have been more appropriate than "beautiful", just my personal opinion.