SI's swimsuit issue is soft porn. Yep.
Beauty pagents are soft pornos. Sure.
A picture of your kids swimming class is a soft porno. Ummm, not so sure...
When you get into wishy washy terms like soft-porn, they can apply to everything. A lot of Muslim countries think that unless women are covered from head to toe, they're being sexually explicit. Which is why I reserve the term for clear sexual acts. Because if it just involves nudity or the hint of nudity or arousal, that can mean almost anything
I have no problem with your objection, except that you seem to think your definition is the one we should all work with, rather than the accepted, legal ones I presented. That is fighting a losing battle. I may think that "violence" should only be applied when someone's life is in jeopardy and, no matter how vehemently I may argue my point to the cops when they show up to arrest me because I smacked my wife or g/f around (come on! that's not really violent!) or when the counselor tells me that the years of verbal abuse I subjected my children to amounts to violence (hey, I just told him he was a worthless sh!t to make him tougher, that's not violence!), I will likely get nowhere indeed.
Thump - your assesment isn't entirely accuate. AF only recently introduced the nekkid ads, so they are incidental to their recovery sales-wise. Also, their sales aren't growing like they had been now either. In the marketing department where I work, their nekkid campaign is generally seen as a bad attempt at being controversial and <maybe> a desperate grasp at reinvigorating their growth.