<< All you can do is ask the person to give you heatware. What are you going to do if they don't? Exactly. Give them their heatware, and move on. >>
Why give them theirs then? This has happened to me quite a bit. I got burned for a long time on this. the first 10 - 15 trades I did, I had to ship/pay first, and quite a few people with 70+ heatwares DEMANDED that I leave heat for them. What did I get in return? NOTHING, I even had one guy threaten me to leave me a bad one, after 3 weeks I hadn't left one because he hadn't left me one. I have been scolded, ridiculed, and belittled for not having enough heatware (still only got 25 or so). It dosen't even matter any more, 75+ trades and only 25 heatwares, oh well, I just gave up. I tried to make it a requirement of the deal to leave me heatware, considering not leaving me one as an unfinished trade, but that plan wasn't liked by some with more evals. :|
I alsways leave 'em on deals still, and don't even care if I get 'em anymore. It just seems that some people with 50 & Upwards seem to have a superiority complex. I think that I personally have been a damm good trader to date. I've a had a couple of boo-boos, and covered my butt pretty well to make up for it. I've helped plenty of newbies get their heats started up, and glad to do so after a great trade! It's only fair!
I recently asked one guy to leave me a heatware, (I sold him a decent amount of stuff), he was registered, but had none. He told me that he never sells or buys stuff online, so he wouldn't bother, but could I leave him one? Hell no!! you can't take 1 minute out of your busy day, but I can. NO THANKS!!!
But then again, what do I know?? 😉