Have you ever slept with a coworker?

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Have you slept with a coworker?

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2canSAM

Diamond Member
Jul 16, 2000
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Yes, she was my boss and her boss found out about our relationship and made her fire me. We will celebrate 13 years marriage in August.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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a few times...5 different chicks at 2 different jobs.

Only once did it turn out really bad, but it was contained to us and close friends. She was an older chick (I was 26 at the time, she was 36) and thought I'd be just a boy toy and be OK with that.

Now if that was how we went into it I would have been, but when she started telling others that saw me at her house that I was stalking her I had to lay down the law.
 
Apr 20, 2008
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Just about every job. It makes for some serious awkward moments once you see each other at work. It also takes some fun out of checking them out at work. You already know what her vag looks like. Sometimes it can be off-putting if it didn't look right.
 

JD50

Lifer
Sep 4, 2005
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Yep, back when I was 19 and worked retail. We've been married for 6 years and have 3 kids.
 

Muse

Lifer
Jul 11, 2001
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Literally slept, yes. It's a volunteer job I still do (DJ at college radio station). She stayed the night at my place. I didn't find her attractive and when we bedded down in my king sized waterbed she asked "can I molest you?" I answered "no" and that was the end of it. :\
 
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zanejohnson

Diamond Member
Nov 29, 2002
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actually slept with two girls at my last job...one went ok.. still friends... the other didnt..
 

MichaelD

Lifer
Jan 16, 2001
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First Time: Slept with coworker not from same department. Things got weird at work after just a week. Bitch got fired for sniffing coke at work two weeks later (I had no idea what she was doing! :eek: )

Second Time: Slept with coworker not from same department. Bitch turned out to be psychotic and stalked me on my days off. Would force me to have sex wherever she felt like it (I'm not into public sex)./

Third Time: Slept with coworker not from same department. Caught feelings for her. Three weeks later she was transferred to my department and became my SUBORDINATE. Completely went to shit instantly, almost cost me my job, gave me an ulcer and took three months to eventually get resolved when she quit. *O_M_G did that SUCK.*

So, um, yeah...I've sort of done that before.

ps
Still think about #3...five years later. So cute...so pretty...sex so good...crazy girl sex...mm...she was so willing to do whatever...twice...mmmmm.
 

deadlyapp

Diamond Member
Apr 25, 2004
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My last 3 or 4 jobs I have. Work is the only place I really open up to people and it usually leads to relationships lol.
 

TallBill

Lifer
Apr 29, 2001
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Surprisingly no, but I've only really had one real job.

Edit - I lied, I slept with a waitress at the bar :)
 

Praetor

Diamond Member
Oct 14, 1999
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Yup. Twice it ended badly. One had issues with men that I didn't know about going into it. One ended up being diagnosed bipolar, but no one would believe me when we were dating. I was always painted as the bad guy in that one.

There should be an option for "working on it." :p
 

ShawnD1

Lifer
May 24, 2003
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quite a few & its not worth it

It was worth it since they were part time jobs that didn't really matter. McDonalds, and Best Buy. I still shop at that same Best Buy and yes it's kinda awkward.

No. I got married before I got my first real job.
This is the most screwed up response in the whole thread. Did you get married at 14 or did you not work until you were 30?
 
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rudeguy

Lifer
Dec 27, 2001
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I managed a restaurant from the time I was 18-21. I had a ton of fun breaking in the new employees
 

ShawnD1

Lifer
May 24, 2003
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I managed a restaurant from the time I was 18-21. I had a ton of fun breaking in the new employees
What surprised me at McDonalds was how many emotionally broken women work there. You can sleep with damn near any one of them.
 

BoomerD

No Lifer
Feb 26, 2006
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And married her 2 years later.:D

Was her supervisor on an assembly line while in college.

Now she supervises me:$


I feel your pain brother.

When I met my wife, I was her boss at Expo 74, the World's Fair in Spokane...then we got married, and......

Well, I'm STILL the boss in my house and I have her permission to say so.
 

rgwalt

Diamond Member
Apr 22, 2000
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Actually, yes. My then GF helped get me a job where she worked. We were at the same site, but not in the same area. After about 6 months we split up, and 6 months after that I quit and got a job elsewhere. I haven't put anything together at my current job... Honestly I value my career with this company too much to jeopardize it by trying to put something together at my current job. I've heard too many horror stories of supervisors having to deal with employees who break up and then can't work together. This makes your problems the company's problem, which is bad for business. I won't rule it out if I meet someone at an after-hours, non-employer-sponsored event, but I don't plan to pursue anyone while at work.