Never shop lifted. When I was a kid I was with some friends who, unbeknownst to me, shop lifted and got caught. I was dragged into the security office with the others, but having nothing in my pockets I was turned loose. Still scared the crap out of me: I wasn't worried about the store's security, I was worried about my father.
Just last week was in a store and saw a guy get busted by the manager for shoplifting. The employees were confirming the guy had lifted more than $20 in merchandise. Apparently unless it's $20 or more the cops here won't pick you up and stick in you jail for at least overnight.
Fern