have you ever cheated on your S.O.? -=POLL=-

[MrDudeMan]

i am curious how many people here have cheated on their S.O.


it is disgusting to me that people actually do this and there is a lot of talk about it on the boards.

 

[Paulson]

I don't have a S.O., so no, I haven't...

 

[chrisjor]

That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

 

[Pastore]

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

Oral sex is cheating.

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

Who are you? Bill Clinton?

 

[JC]

No, but I've cheated with someone else's S.O...does that count?

 

[Sealy]

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

To me, it's worse. At least with sex you have some kind of passion for the other person.

 

[amdskip]

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

This is cheating IMHO.

I have never cheated because I have had a SO other than my right hand

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: JC
No, but I've cheated with someone else's S.O...does that count?

I hope not. I've done that. The guy was a jerk to her, though, so I didn't care.

 

[HappyPuppy]

What is a S.O. Definition, please.

 

[Pastore]

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

To me, it's worse. At least with sex you have some kind of passion for the other person.

So if someone cheats on you it's better if there is passion behind it? I can't figure out that logic.

 

[JC]

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
What is a S.O. Definition, please.

Significant Other.

 

[Swag1138]

See, you would have to HAVE an s.o to cheat on them. Therefore, asking this question here is like asking a hindu how they like their burger.

 

[JC]

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: JC
No, but I've cheated with someone else's S.O...does that count?

I hope not. I've done that. The guy was a jerk to her, though, so I didn't care.

Ditto.

 

[Beau]

Nope. Never will.

 

[chrisjor]

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

To me, it's worse. At least with sex you have some kind of passion for the other person.

But I thought oral sex was sex...do you mean intercourse? If you include passion you truely are cheating because you are involving feeling and emotions. If you get a casual bj it is just a physical sensation.

 

[bigrash]

I never cheated on any of my SO, but I'd be lying if I said I never thought about it. I would have never crossed that line though

 

[busmaster11]

I consider anything from holding hands to having a drink alone with a girl where there's mutual attraction, cheating...

I've never come close to it in my 4.5 years with my current gf. I thought about it a few times, but then when I think about how it would hurt her, I knew it would be a mistake. Having said that, I often question my own self-control in such matters, and whether the reason I've succeeded so far is because I seem to subconsciously try to avoid such situations from the very beginning, and that if I let things somehow progress into a more tempting situation, if I would do the right thing...

 

[Moonbeam]

Well with a name like MrDudeMan, I guess if you're offering, I'm not interested. But thanks anyway.

 

[Storm]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Well with a name like MrDudeMan, I guess if you're offering, I'm not interested. But thanks anyway.

Hahahaha

 

[freebee]

now suppose Monica only whacked off Bill Clinton (with her hand)....technically thats not sex...just massage....right?

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: Beast1284

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

To me, it's worse. At least with sex you have some kind of passion for the other person.

So if someone cheats on you it's better if there is passion behind it? I can't figure out that logic.

Yup. I would hope that someone I loved would throw away our relationship for someone they were passionate for rather than someone they just wanted to go down on.

 

[pulse8]

Originally posted by: chrisjor

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: Sealy

Originally posted by: chrisjor
That depends on what your definition of "is" is. Is oral sex cheating? It doesn't seem to be sex any longer.

of course it's cheating if you have oral sex with someone else! That's something special you share only with the person you are with! As far as I'm concerned, it's just as bad as doing the real thing!

To me, it's worse. At least with sex you have some kind of passion for the other person.

But I thought oral sex was sex...do you mean intercourse? If you include passion you truely are cheating because you are involving feeling and emotions. If you get a casual bj it is just a physical sensation.

Physical sensation in an intimate manner, but you can justify cheating however you'd like.

 

[CraigRT]

*no S.O. right now*

but i'll be a man and admit i've thought about it.

but lets be honest. if you're with the right person, you wouldn't think of it. (at least not me)
evidently i wasn't with the right person.