Originally posted by: rh71
they say knowing martial arts can give you a false sense of security / confidence... where you decide to risk your life in situations that you shouldn't or didn't have to.
I'd still like to learn it to know it, but what's your thoughts on this ?
At the beginning of all of them, I would say they give you a false sense are confidence. Some martial arts are DESIGNED to street fight, some are for show, some for tournments with points and all that jazz. All of them build confedence in one way or another. Each has its strengths and weaknesses.
The problem is that too many people think concreatly when it comes to moves in martial arts. I take Aikido, an almost purely defensive art that is designed to not hurt the attacker. However, in real life, if you are trying to do many of the moves, waiting for that right moment, you will get the crap kicked out of you. Its about applying what you have learned to real life situations, and the concept of Aikido. If someone puts me in a headlock, I don't fight against the headlock, nor do I let him push my head to the ground. I merely drop down at the knees because he wont expect that, tuck my head and push him arm off (using his energy against him)...instant armbar, and now I can break any number of bones or joints.
They will probably not teach that in class, but all those moves I just used were taught in one form or another in my class. However, I probably wont feel confident enough to use them IRL for another year or so because of the speed at which things happen. The moves you do have to come naturally...one doesn't think about using martial arts.
I'm not sure if that answered your question or not, but thats the best I could do with my experience and limited knowledge.
EDIT: Yes, I have been in a fight. Back when I was 14, some guy grabbed my balls on the soccer field. I decided that was enough, and threw him down and started beating him in the face. His dad come out, tackled me and his kid sat up. I then stomped on his chest with my soccer cleat. Apparently, he had trouble breathing for the next week or so. I was ejected from the game...only fight I've been in besides ones that don't involve my brother.