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Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: narutofan36
girls like guys who ooze desperation
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Right-o, chap.
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Hey now, I'm just asking for some advice. I'm authentically not good at this
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Practice makes perfect. Those people in the olympics... the first time they tried their sport they sucked.... Look at them now winning gold medals and stuff.

What's the old saying... fall down ten times get up eleven.

Rejection is nothing. It happens... Keep going. Eventually it'll be 3am and one of them will be drunk enough to say yes. Take your victories, remember what you did right and build on it. 😀
 
I have a job and enough money to treat people to dinner if that's what you mean. When I turn 21 I can start doing the shots thing 😛
 
Still looking for more sagely advice if possible, I know there's no perfect way to meet new women. Isn't it kind of creepy to just talk to random people you see at a coffee shop or on the street though? Also, I don't want to put a lot of time into club activities just for the pursuit of dating; besides, I'm not a very big fan of clubs
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: yobarman
No you don't have trouble cause you actually haven't tried. You need to grow a sac, and forget all this bad crap thats been happening to your (all i know is that she's banging your best friend) If that were me, i'd have no contact with them ever again, unless you just wanna break him off a peice.

I understand that yes, it's an abusive relationship, but you're a grown ass man and you need to get over your problems because the next lady isn't going to want to hear about them.
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Yeah, I know I haven't tried. I really don't know how 😵

I'm turning 21 in May, I live right off-campus from the University of Arizona in the Tucson area in a 2-bedroom apartment. Don't have much social life outside of my friend circles (all of the women are taken already).
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with all the hot girls at Arizona , you have trouble finding one...WTF?

Regards

ng
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Still looking for more sagely advice if possible, I know there's no perfect way to meet new women. Isn't it kind of creepy to just talk to random people you see at a coffee shop or on the street though? Also, I don't want to put a lot of time into club activities just for the pursuit of dating; besides, I'm not a very big fan of clubs
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In short your problems are not new....search and you will find hundreds of threads regarding this.

It is not creepy to talk to strangers, in fact it is perfectly normal. It becomes creepy if you come across as a creep get it?

ask your self these things

am I cool?

am I looking and feeling my best?

do I have an exciting personality?

Do I have an exciting life someone would want to be apart of?


If you answered no to any of those questions go out and work on it.
 
I want a :camera: of the OP, I need to see what we are working with here. As of right now you are coming across as the biggest dork ever.
 
girls like guys in robes and wizard hats. jk. i met mine in a university club. try out some new hobbies or clubs. the gym maybe? just be yourself. someone is bound to appreciate that
 
Originally posted by: gigapet
I want a :camera: of the OP, I need to see what we are working with here. As of right now you are coming across as the biggest dork ever.
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Nah, he's probably just a bit shy.
 
You'll never have an easier time meeting women than in college. If you're having troubles now then you better get your arse practicing or you'll have BIG trouble once you graduate.

 
The hardest thing to do is get over being shy or timid.
Coming out of a bad relationship makes it even harder, but it can be done.

This may sound corney, but it does work...
Look at yourself in the mirror every moring. Name one thing each day that you feel is an atribute.
Really think... not just physically, but mentally, spiritually, etc. Build that confidence back in yourself.
When you have confidence in you, it will come across to everyone you meet.

Go out, make yourself seen. If you see a girl you think you would like, acknowledge that in your own mind and make it a point to go up to her.

More than any cheesy pick up line, if you go up to a girl and say something as simple as: "i don't mean to be rude, or stare, but you have the most inriguing eyes"... something along those likes. Be confident and sincere when you say it. That will usually take you to the next step of introducing yourself.

I wish i could be of more help. All I can say about anyone who feels this way is feel confident that you are worth something, because you really are.
 
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
The hardest thing to do is get over being shy or timid.
Coming out of a bad relationship makes it even harder, but it can be done.

This may sound corney, but it does work...
Look at yourself in the mirror every moring. Name one thing each day that you feel is an atribute.
Really think... not just physically, but mentally, spiritually, etc. Build that confidence back in yourself.
When you have confidence in you, it will come across to everyone you meet.

Go out, make yourself seen. If you see a girl you think you would like, acknowledge that in your own mind and make it a point to go up to her.

More than any cheesy pick up line, if you go up to a girl and say something as simple as: "i don't mean to be rude, or stare, but you have the most inriguing eyes"... something along those likes. Be confident and sincere when you say it. That will usually take you to the next step of introducing yourself.

I wish i could be of more help. All I can say about anyone who feels this way is feel confident that you are worth something, because you really are.
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Would YOU fall for the intriguing eyes line? I'm afraid of looking like a creep if I say that 😛 But if you can confidently say that it wouldn't sound creepy or that it would work, then I'll consider giving it a shot.
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
The hardest thing to do is get over being shy or timid.
Coming out of a bad relationship makes it even harder, but it can be done.

This may sound corney, but it does work...
Look at yourself in the mirror every moring. Name one thing each day that you feel is an atribute.
Really think... not just physically, but mentally, spiritually, etc. Build that confidence back in yourself.
When you have confidence in you, it will come across to everyone you meet.

Go out, make yourself seen. If you see a girl you think you would like, acknowledge that in your own mind and make it a point to go up to her.

More than any cheesy pick up line, if you go up to a girl and say something as simple as: "i don't mean to be rude, or stare, but you have the most inriguing eyes"... something along those likes. Be confident and sincere when you say it. That will usually take you to the next step of introducing yourself.

I wish i could be of more help. All I can say about anyone who feels this way is feel confident that you are worth something, because you really are.
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Would YOU fall for the intriguing eyes line? I'm afraid of looking like a creep if I say that 😛 But if you can confidently say that it wouldn't sound creepy or that it would work, then I'll consider giving it a shot.
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Yes i would, that is why i posted that. It is all in the way you say it though...
like i said, be honest and sincere when you say that and it will come off as you really thinking she has pretty eyes... or say whatever you feel most comfortable saying.
 
Just keep thinking your the sh!ts. If you don't then no one will...be confident and be a man. Go talk to random girls.

F0ck rejection. Just keep speaking to girls and make small talk. Then just ask if they want to go out for drinks. Get digits. If they don't, no biggie, 100000x other girls out there. And FFS your at a Uni = loads of girls...

Go join a salsa class. You will meet a lot of girls. If anything you will get more comfortble around girls and you will get good at making chit chat. You would be suprised at the number of girls at salsa. Also there is a lack of guys as they don't bother to go = more girls for you to chat to!

Koing
 
Originally posted by: Koing
Go join a salsa class. You will meet a lot of girls. If anything you will get more comfortble around girls and you will get good at making chit chat. You would be suprised at the number of girls at salsa. Also there is a lack of guys as they don't bother to go = more girls for you to chat to!
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Ooo and you'll be good at salsa
 
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