Have an important life changing decision you want advice on?

JoeKing

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I will answer your life altering, extremely expensive, complicated, personal dilemas right here! No BS pussyfooting folks I will give it to you straight.

you may only ask one question.



the CandyCane is : OUT
 

KarenMarie

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ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

 

JoeKing

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

If he's not willing to leave for your sake, then he's not a good boyfriend. Leave and try the long distance relationship thing.
 

olds

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

Depends, :camera:s?
 

JoeKing

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Originally posted by: Nomada
Should I go pick beer bottles in the morning for smack?

No,

You will not make anywhere near enough to get good smack from beer bottles. Instead rob your neighbor.
 

KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: JoeKing
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

If he's not willing to leave for your sake, then he's not a good boyfriend. Leave and try the long distance relationship thing.

no.. he is a great b/f... but he is limited to what he can do for a living. all his contacts are here, all his business is here. he is starting to hate it here, too. so i wait and see if the day is gonna come where he will want to go too.

We did the long distance relationship thing. When we met, I was in Nashville, and he was here... I moved here for him... 5 1/2 yrs ago. he sunk a lot of money into buying this house in cash... i just hate it here. hate it hate it hate it. but he will not make money in the places i want to live.

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Depends, :camera:s?
:camera: of who? him?
 

Amplifier

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Some guy on another forum says mean things about me. Should I argue with him, call him names, or just ignore him?
 

JoeKing

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: JoeKing
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

If he's not willing to leave for your sake, then he's not a good boyfriend. Leave and try the long distance relationship thing.

no.. he is a great b/f... but he is limited to what he can do for a living. all his contacts are here, all his business is here. he is starting to hate it here, too. so i wait and see if the day is gonna come where he will want to go too.

We did the long distance relationship thing. When we met, I was in Nashville, and he was here... I moved here for him... 5 1/2 yrs ago. he sunk a lot of money into buying this house in cash... i just hate it here. hate it hate it hate it. but he will not make money in the places i want to live.

then you should stay where you are and start drinking
 

JoeKing

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Originally posted by: Amplifier
Some guy on another forum says mean things about me. Should I argue with him, call him names, or just ignore him?

Mention his mom spread eagle on your bed, then ignore him afterward
 

olds

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: JoeKing
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
ok. here is a serious one.

i adore my b/f .... best one i ever had. absolutely the finest guy ever.
i hate were we live so much that there are times i either want to be suicidal or homacidal.

he makes loads and loads of money here ... would never make 1/2 this anywhere else.... he wont leave.

do i go without him... or stay?

If he's not willing to leave for your sake, then he's not a good boyfriend. Leave and try the long distance relationship thing.

no.. he is a great b/f... but he is limited to what he can do for a living. all his contacts are here, all his business is here. he is starting to hate it here, too. so i wait and see if the day is gonna come where he will want to go too.

We did the long distance relationship thing. When we met, I was in Nashville, and he was here... I moved here for him... 5 1/2 yrs ago. he sunk a lot of money into buying this house in cash... i just hate it here. hate it hate it hate it. but he will not make money in the places i want to live.

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Depends, :camera:s?
:camera: of who? him?

Ya, right.
 

KarenMarie

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snipped cause i hate the long nested quotes

Originally posted by: JoeKing
then you should stay where you are and start drinking

Hahahaha!!! funny thing is.. when we met.. we were both pretty heavy boozers. But we hardly ever drink anyone.. kinda like we found in each other what we were previously seatrching for in the bottom of a glass,.

Maybe it is time to start up again.
;)