Had a car accident, need some advice Now with drawing + pics!

RaynorWolfcastle

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Let me begin this by saying that I live in Quebec and we have a no-fault system for accidents as far as the law is concerned.

I was driving to work yesterday morning when at about 7:50 I got hit at a 4-way stop sign intersection. I was coming in one direction and there were two cars coming to my left, both other sides had no one there. The first car coming from my left got to the stop sign with the second car about 20 ft behind him. The first car got to the stop a fraction of a second before me so he went thru first. Because of this I distinctly remember making a full stop. I looked left, the second car was slowing down (I assumed) to make a stop. I looked right to check for pedestrians or anything I may have missed, there was a pedestrian there about 10 feet from the intersection (coming in my direction). As I was turning my head back to the right I entered the intersection as I had the right of way at this point and everything was looking good.

About halfway through the intersection I saw the second car coming towards me and had no time to brake before impact. He hit my cor on the front left fender, from the side. We got out of the intersection and went over to the side. I asked him what happened and why he went right after the other car when I was there he said (and this is a direct quote) "I didn't see you". At this point I was shaken but not hurt and didn't have the presence of mind to ask him to write that down (though he problably wouldn't have done that anyways).

At that point I realized that the pedestrian walking towards the intersection was one of my friends and he likely saw the whole thing. He had to catch a bus and I'm pretty sure he heard most of the talk at the beginning, though I didn't ask him (more on that later). Anyhow, he had to catch a bus so he took off when we started exchanging information. I had to get to work so I got his information and everyone took off.

The damage on his car was very minor as he hit me with his front bumper. A few scratches and his hood was misaligned by half an inch or so (he hit me with the front right side of his bumper). On my car however, the fender had collapsed in, the hood had folded up by about 8" and the radiator had come off the engine. His car was a '99 Chrysker LHS, mine was a '90 Celica GTS so his car was much heavier than mine which partially explains why how he managed to plow through my car. Judging by the impact on my car he had to be going some 30 km/h (19 mph). He couldn't have possibly accelerated completely to that speed in the 10 ft. from the stop sign to where he hit me without gunning the engine (I believe he never made a full stop). Since I worked only a block away, I put the hazard lights on and drive there very slowly.

I call my insurance company and tell them my version of the story (as above); they give me the name of a towing company and a garage they recommend, they come and tow it. They told me that in the situation described I was either 50% at fault or not at fault at all. If I'm found to be 50% at fault, my insurance rates go up a whopping $500/yr for 3 years on top of the already exorbitant $2k/yr that my parents pay for me.

Today I got in touch with the garage and the insurance company. The garage tells me that the insurance company has told them that anything above $4.3K CDN shouldn't be fixed and the car would have to be scrapped. He tells me that since he is having a lot of trouble finding used parts for the car, he thinks it will cost $6K (!) to fix it. Also it seems that the car's structure was damaged meaning that it will likely not be worth repairing. This is a problem because the car was in tremendous shape for it's age. I was in the process of touching up the few small spots of rust that were on the body but all in all it was in excellent condition. Most people were very surprised when I said it was 14 years old, even after the accident co-workers couldn't believe it. I should mention that I am a poor student and I don't think I could get a car in anything near that kind of condition with $4k-$5K (CDN still).

Next, the insurance calls me and tells me they got in touch with him and he tells them a completely different story. He says I didn't stop completely and that I was totally at fault for this. I restrained myself from any impulsive comment like calling him a liar but I was shocked. She told me that the only way to settle this was for each side to be 50% at fault. :|. (by coincidence we have the same insurance company).

I had told the insurance company's representant that I had a witness but I didn't have his number on me and that I would get it for them when I got back home during the first call. She now said that I couldn't use him as a witness since he was biased. I told her that was a load of crap (in more polite terms) and asked her if she was accusing him of lying without him even saying a word. She told me to call her on Monday and give her the witness' phone number so that she could talk to him.

Here is my dilemma, I KNOW I'm not at fault here and if I had a microphone on me (and I will next time) this wouldn't even be debatable. But right now I will be relying on my friend's testimony to confirm my story. I know he was there but I don't know how much he saw and heard. I have intentionally not spoken to him since then so as not to "taint" the witness.

I am going to call him to let him know I gave his name and phone number to the insurance company, but I am unsure as to whether or not I should talk to him. I don't want to put him in a position where he would have to say he saw or heard something he didn't but on the other hand I get majorly screwed if he doesn't have enough information to convince the insurance company that I wasn't at fault.

When I call my friend should I just tell him that the insurance company will talk to him or should I ask him what he saw/heard and give him additional details where needed? As I said earlier I KNOW that I wasn't at fault and that he lied to them when he said I didn't make my stop because he even admitted that he hadn't seen me. This is still an ethical dilemma and I'm unsure what to do.

Also, do you have any advice on what I should or shouldn't do when I call the insurance company on Monday?

the story is long but please read it, I do need advice

I should mention that I am a 20 yr old male, while he is likely in his 40s.

Cliff's Notes for the Lazy
ok, here's a cliff's notes version but you'll have a little trouble understanding how/why I may get screwed.

- I got hit at an intersection with a 4-way stop sign. I had the right of way, he told me "I didn't see you" when I asked him wtf happened.
- My car is totalled but is worth more (in my head anyway) than what the insurance wants to give me for it and I won't be able to get anything near as good for the money they're giving me
- His car has $50 worth of damage on it, at most
- He told the insurance company (we have the same one) that I was at fault, when I know I wasn't. If I'm found 50% at fault, I get screwed because I am a young driver and he isn't.
- A friend saw the accident, I don't know whether or not I should talk to him before I give the insurance company his number

Now that you've read the Cliff's notes read the whole story to understand what's going on

And now the Pics:
crude drawing of the accident

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conjur

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the story is long but please read it, I do need advice

then give a Cliff Notes version!

:confused:
 

Heisenberg

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Why didn't you call the police right away?

Anyway, I wouldn't talk to your friend at all before the insurance company does. That will make it harder for them to say he was covering for you.
 

conjur

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Crux of the problem:

Insurance company the same for both drivers (there's a big red flag...Allstate is bad at screwing you if both drivers are with Allstate)
Poster was stopped at a stop sign and let one car go that was coming from the left (a 4-way stop) and as the poster went to go, a 2nd car following that car from the left ran the intersection and hit the poster's car.
Poster saw a pedestrian who was a friend but not sure if the friend saw it all happen.
Guy in 2nd car is telling insurance a different story and insurance is saying 50/50 at fault.
 

brunswickite

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I read the whole thing, but dont know what advice to give :(

Cliff Notes

Raynor gets in to an accident at a 4way stop, and his car is damaged
The guy that hit him told him "he did not see him"
Raynor goes to body shop they tell him he has crazy money ammounts of damages
When he talks to the insurance company the guy changes his story and now Raynor is screwed
But also Raynor has a friend who witenessed the accident, and is in a dillemma, and needs to know exactly waht the witness saw and heard

My cliff notes arent too good...
read the story its not that long
 

conjur

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Originally posted by: brunswickite
I read the whole thing, but dont know what advice to give :(

Cliff Notes

Raynor gets in to an accident at a 4way stop, and his car is damaged
The guy that hit him told him "he did not see him"
Raynor goes to body shop they tell him he has crazy money ammounts of damages
When he talks to the insurance company the guy changes his story and now Raynor is screwed
But also Raynor has a friend who witenessed the accident, and is in a dillemma, and needs to know exactly waht the witness saw and heard

My cliff notes arent too good...
read the story its not that long

You suck at teh Cl1ff N0t3s

;)
 

brunswickite

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Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: brunswickite
I read the whole thing, but dont know what advice to give :(

Cliff Notes

Raynor gets in to an accident at a 4way stop, and his car is damaged
The guy that hit him told him "he did not see him"
Raynor goes to body shop they tell him he has crazy money ammounts of damages
When he talks to the insurance company the guy changes his story and now Raynor is screwed
But also Raynor has a friend who witenessed the accident, and is in a dillemma, and needs to know exactly waht the witness saw and heard

My cliff notes arent too good...
read the story its not that long

You suck at teh Cl1ff N0t3s

;)

yea and i work for the company that publishes them :(
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: conjur
the story is long but please read it, I do need advice

then give a Cliff Notes version!

:confused:

ok, here's a cliff's notes version but you'll have a little trouble understanding how/why I may get screwed.

- I got hit at an intersection with a 4-way stop sign. I had the right of way, he told me "I didn't see you" when I asked him wtf happened.
- My car is totalled but is worth more (in my head anyway) than what the insurance wants to give me for it and I won't be able to get anything near as good for the money they're giving me
- His car has $50 worth of damage on it, at most
- He told the insurance company (we have the same one) that I was at fault, when I know I wasn't. If I'm found 50% at fault, I get screwed because I am a young driver and he isn't.
- A friend saw the accident, I don't know whether or not I should talk to him before I give the insurance company his number.

Also note that the insurance company profits more if I'm 50% at fault since his rate hike won't be anywhere as steep as mine given our respective ages.
 

Radiohead

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had told the insurance company's representant that I had a witness but I didn't have his number on me and that I would get it for them when I got back home during the first call. She now said that I couldn't use him as a witness since he was biased. I told her that was a load of crap (in more polite terms) and asked her if she was accusing him of lying without him even saying a word. She told me to call her on Monday and give her the witness' phone number so that she could talk to him.

Why did she say your witness is biased? Does she know it is your friend?

When I call my friend should I just tell him that the insurance company will talk to him or should I ask him what he saw/heard and give him additional details where needed? As I said earlier I KNOW that I wasn't at fault and that he lied to them when he said I didn't make my stop because he even admitted that he hadn't seen me. This is still an ethical dilemma and I'm unsure what to do.

Time to pull some strings...
 

oniq

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Have your friend give a statement to the insurance company. More people on your side, the better your case is. Good luck!
 

narzy

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here is what you should do, DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIEND AT ALL, if you do, it will appear you have tampered with the evidence, just give the insurence company the number noting that you have not informed the friend they will be calling and to please explain to him what they are calling about. this is he said she said (the other guy being the she if he lied as you state he has.) other then that keep in touch with the insurence company or call them monday afternoon or tuesday to see if they got in touch with your friend. keep doing that until the answer is yes, then you can call your firend and see what his side of it was. if they total your car, then its totaled, theres nothing you can do about that in addition if the frame is bent or damaged you have to ask yourself if you truly want to drive a vehical that is potentially unsafe.

somthing else you can do is build a diagram of the intersection, where your car got it, where he came from, even if you did "blow" a stop sign, how could he get going that fast from a dead stop to cause that much damage, ect...
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: narzy
here is what you should do, DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIEND AT ALL, if you do, it will appear you have tampered with the evidence, just give the insurence company the number noting that you have not informed the friend they will be calling and to please explain to him what they are calling about. this is he said she said (the other guy being the she if he lied as you state he has.) other then that keep in touch with the insurence company or call them monday afternoon or tuesday to see if they got in touch with your friend. keep doing that until the answer is yes, then you can call your firend and see what his side of it was. if they total your car, then its totaled, theres nothing you can do about that in addition if the frame is bent or damaged you have to ask yourself if you truly want to drive a vehical that is potentially unsafe.

somthing else you can do is build a diagram of the intersection, where your car got it, where he came from, even if you did "blow" a stop sign, how could he get going that fast from a dead stop to cause that much damage, ect...

I would have no problem not at all talking to my friend but if he didn't hear him say "I didn't see you" or he didn't see me make a full stop I'm still screwed.

I think I might go to the shop on Mon and get digital pics of the car. Then I'll get a pic of the intersection and point out where he hit me.

As for my car, it's done. The frame was bent (in front of the front left tire). I was just pointing out that it really sucked for me because there's no way I'll get anything like it for what they're paying me :(.

Pics of my car before the accident will be posted shortly
 

conjur

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Originally posted by: narzy
here is what you should do, DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIEND AT ALL, if you do, it will appear you have tampered with the evidence, just give the insurence company the number noting that you have not informed the friend they will be calling and to please explain to him what they are calling about. this is he said she said (the other guy being the she if he lied as you state he has.) other then that keep in touch with the insurence company or call them monday afternoon or tuesday to see if they got in touch with your friend. keep doing that until the answer is yes, then you can call your firend and see what his side of it was. if they total your car, then its totaled, theres nothing you can do about that in addition if the frame is bent or damaged you have to ask yourself if you truly want to drive a vehical that is potentially unsafe.

somthing else you can do is build a diagram of the intersection, where your car got it, where he came from, even if you did "blow" a stop sign, how could he get going that fast from a dead stop to cause that much damage, ect...

There's your smoking gun right there. Accident reconstruction would prove that he was at fault. Also, were there no skid marks? If he didn't see you, he most likely didn't see the stop sign (was he dialing a cell phone? Messing with the radio? Checking his makeup in the mirror? ;) )

Oh, and turn around and sue this guy for add'l money so you can properly replace your car.

And, be on the lookout for neck/back pain if you had any type of whiplash.
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: conjur
Originally posted by: narzy
here is what you should do, DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIEND AT ALL, if you do, it will appear you have tampered with the evidence, just give the insurence company the number noting that you have not informed the friend they will be calling and to please explain to him what they are calling about. this is he said she said (the other guy being the she if he lied as you state he has.) other then that keep in touch with the insurence company or call them monday afternoon or tuesday to see if they got in touch with your friend. keep doing that until the answer is yes, then you can call your firend and see what his side of it was. if they total your car, then its totaled, theres nothing you can do about that in addition if the frame is bent or damaged you have to ask yourself if you truly want to drive a vehical that is potentially unsafe.

somthing else you can do is build a diagram of the intersection, where your car got it, where he came from, even if you did "blow" a stop sign, how could he get going that fast from a dead stop to cause that much damage, ect...

There's your smoking gun right there. Accident reconstruction would prove that he was at fault. Also, were there no skid marks? If he didn't see you, he most likely didn't see the stop sign (was he dialing a cell phone? Messing with the radio? Checking his makeup in the mirror? ;) )
Oh, and turn around and sue this guy for add'l money so you can properly replace your car.
And, be on the lookout for neck/back pain if you had any type of whiplash.

I didn't see skid marks from either side (was going about 5 mph at that point since I was coming from a full stop so there obviously there would be nothing coming from me). I can't sue him since Quebec has no-fault in car accidents as far as the law is concerned.

I've had no whiplash or neck/back pains so that's pretty good. I was telling my dad it's a good thing I wasn't further in the intersection or it could have been a whole lot messier :Q

Here's a crude drawing of the accident scene
crude drawing of accident

 

Your car looks amazing. The way the scene is drawn, and the way he hit you, it can be no one's fault but his, given his speed.

Dig your feet in the dirt; this might be a long journey. But, I think you have the upper hand on this given that you have a witness.
 

bolido2000

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Just call your friend from a payphone. Who is going to know that u tainted the witness? Explain your friend the situation. He doesn't have to make up a story or anything. Just explain what he saw in words that would make your story correct. Also, I would go to the cops and file a report or something. The other guy is going to srew u big time since he doesn't have anything to lose (he knows he is at fault). You should have called the cops right away. I would call the cops in any accident I am involved unless I am 100% sure that it was my fault.
 

virtueixi

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IMO it was partly your fault. When at an all way intersection you have to make sure that the intersection is CLEAR before proceding, expecially of pedestrians. Which doesn't mean keeping your attention on them as you drive through the intersection. An intersection is one of the most stupidest places not to be paying attention in, and if you had been this accident would have been avoided. So you are definitly at SOME fault and your lucky insurance is cheap where you are, because $500 a year is nothing.
 

Tom

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I don't see any scenario where the other guy could have stopped at the stop sign as he should have and run into the side of your car.

I'm assuming from your description that the front of his car hit your front fender from the side ?
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: virtueixi
IMO it was partly your fault. When at an all way intersection you have to make sure that the intersection is CLEAR before proceding, expecially of pedestrians. Which doesn't mean keeping your attention on them as you drive through the intersection. An intersection is one of the most stupidest places not to be paying attention in, and if you had been this accident would have been avoided. So you are definitly at SOME fault and your lucky insurance is cheap where you are, because $500 a year is nothing.

$500/yr is the INCREASE. $2k/yr is what I pay now. And the intersection WAS clear that's why HE RAN INTO ME and not vice versa. Either way, you should pay more attention to what you read before making erroneous comments :frown:
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: Dead Parrot Sketch
I don't see any scenario where the other guy could have stopped at the stop sign as he should have and run into the side of your car.

I'm assuming from your description that the front of his car hit your front fender from the side ?

That is correct. I think I'll try to get pics of my mangled car and email it to the insurance rep to prove my point.
 

virtueixi

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$500/yr is the INCREASE. $2k/yr is what I pay now. And the intersection WAS clear that's why HE RAN INTO ME and not vice versa. Either way, you should pay more attention to what you read before making erroneous comments
I apoligize, it was a long story and you mentioned looking to your right to check for pedestrians. I thought you were doing this going through the intersection. If the car came out of the blue and hit you then it clearly wasn't your fault. You should contact the guy and tell him you have a witness and if he tries anymore shi! you will sue him for punitive damages. BTW I'm from NYC, and for me and my dad we pay $1700 every 6 months for 1 car, with clean records. Thats why I believe that a $500 wouldn't of been that bad. Again I'm sorry if I misunderstood and GL.