guys with no shame - staring

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TheLonelyPhoenix

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Feb 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Women love the attention, they just pretend not to.
they love the thought of being desired, but I doubt they like being stared at as they're walking the streets going about their day.

No, they do. I thought they wouldn't like being singled out for that kind of thing either, but I asked a few female friends of mine, and apparently it makes their day when a guy leans out a car window to whistle at them as they go by.
 

iamme

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: Attrox
Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun, you don't stare at it. It's too risky! You get a sense of it and then you look away."

Hahaha, I forgot what movie/show was that line from?

seinfeld!!

i usually just smile. you'd be surprised that women actually smile back :Q

just none of those "i'm thinking about you in various positions" smiles.
 

conjur

No Lifer
Jun 7, 2001
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Originally posted by: yobarman
I have no shame, but I'm very sneaky about it. I get caught sometimes though. But it happens to the best of us.

If you get caught, wink and smile. If they don't smile back, they're just a beeyotch and not worth the time. ;)
 

MaxDepth

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I have no shame. You forgot the wolf whistles and the "hubba hubba" as she walks by.

Don't just stare, make it a celebration!
 

Buck Armstrong

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Dec 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: randal
I have no shame, then. I look. I mean, hell, if they're going to look like that out in public, might as well give them the attention they're after.

Just because I'm dressed this way does not make a whore.



I'm just wearing a whore's uniform.
 

TheLonelyPhoenix

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Feb 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Originally posted by: randal
I have no shame, then. I look. I mean, hell, if they're going to look like that out in public, might as well give them the attention they're after.

Just because I'm dressed this way does not make a whore.



I'm just wearing a whore's uniform.

"Ladies, you gotta understand... that is fvcking confusing..."
 

Analog

Lifer
Jan 7, 2002
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Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Maybe you, but most men are afraid of the political corectness factor.

But you've gotta ask yourself, men are usually gawking at women who purposely dress in such a manner to garner that attention. So what's the problem then? I don't mean you in particular, but if women are offended by gawking, then wear something more conservative!
 

flyboy84

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um...I do the look in, look away. look in, look away. but when it's a really great set of boobs just hangin out there I have a hard time not staring :p
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Maybe you, but most men are afraid of the political corectness factor.

But you've gotta ask yourself, men are usually gawking at women who purposely dress in such a manner to garner that attention. So what's the problem then? I don't mean you in particular, but if women are offended by gawking, then wear something more conservative!
in the big NYC, there's tons of women walking around at any given time dressed in business clothes... skirts, a light top, and a blazer over it. Guys STILL stare as if they were in a bikini. When it's really warm, there's obviously more skin. What do you really want the women to do ? Dress like grandma year round ?
 

Analog

Lifer
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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Maybe you, but most men are afraid of the political corectness factor.

But you've gotta ask yourself, men are usually gawking at women who purposely dress in such a manner to garner that attention. So what's the problem then? I don't mean you in particular, but if women are offended by gawking, then wear something more conservative!
in the big NYC, there's tons of women walking around at any given time dressed in business clothes... skirts, a light top, and a blazer over it. Guys STILL stare as if they were in a bikini. What do you really want the women to do ? Dress like grandma ?


How about a burka?
 

rh71

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Aug 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Maybe you, but most men are afraid of the political corectness factor.

But you've gotta ask yourself, men are usually gawking at women who purposely dress in such a manner to garner that attention. So what's the problem then? I don't mean you in particular, but if women are offended by gawking, then wear something more conservative!
in the big NYC, there's tons of women walking around at any given time dressed in business clothes... skirts, a light top, and a blazer over it. Guys STILL stare as if they were in a bikini. What do you really want the women to do ? Dress like grandma ?


How about a burka?
just so they don't get stared at ? They dress to look stylish so it may not fit in.
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Pics?
 

Mr N8

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Most guys think they are getting away with "peaking" without realizing that they are staring way too hard. My roommate in college thought he was so sly. He told me that he could check out any chick that walked by, and none of them would ever notice. So, the next time he commented on someone, I went up to her and asked if she noticed that guy checking her out. She said, "you mean that creepy guy over there that needs to shave? Of course I did, he's checking out any girl that walks by."

Yeah, he was a huge idiot, but I loved proving my point.
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, most of the time, i find it very offensive when men gawk. it makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. i would rather them come up to me (if anything at all) and complment me.

Maybe you, but most men are afraid of the political corectness factor.

But you've gotta ask yourself, men are usually gawking at women who purposely dress in such a manner to garner that attention. So what's the problem then? I don't mean you in particular, but if women are offended by gawking, then wear something more conservative!

i agree with you, but even if i am not wearing skimpy clothes, it still happens. you are right though... most dress like that to get attention.
 

iamme

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: MogulMonster
Most guys think they are getting away with "peaking" without realizing that they are staring way too hard. My roommate in college thought he was so sly. He told me that he could check out any chick that walked by, and none of them would ever notice. So, the next time he commented on someone, I went up to her and asked if she noticed that guy checking her out. She said, "you mean that creepy guy over there that needs to shave? Of course I did, he's checking out any girl that walks by."

Yeah, he was a huge idiot, but I loved proving my point.

lol, that's hilarious :D
 

loup garou

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I have no shame and if I miss a hot girl, my gf points her out for me to check out.

EDIT: I don't think I'm staring and drooling (and lord knows I'm not winking, catcalling, etc), but I'm not going to "avert my eyes" to avoid damaging some girl's fragile sense of propriety.
 

Attrox

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There was this supermarket near where I used to live and outside from it they have benches where people can sit down. 1 time after I finished my grocery shopping, I walked out and there's 1 super super hot blonde girl walked passed me. I couldn't help but walk while looking at her and I walked and bang my knee against the bench :eek:
 

MmmSkyscraper

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My friend got busted the last time we were at a meal with his SO... She loved ripping the p1ss out of him for the next hour :D
 

MmmSkyscraper

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Originally posted by: Attrox
There was this supermarket near where I used to live and outside from it they have benches where people can sit down. 1 time after I finished my grocery shopping, I walked out and there's 1 super super hot blonde girl walked passed me. I couldn't help but walk while looking at her and I walked and bang my knee against the bench :eek:

ROFL!

Another friend got busted at work, the girl even started waving at him and his brain was so broken it didn't register til she stopped walking and started laughing.
 

Amused

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Apr 14, 2001
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I stare.

Hell, women have become so accommodating they've put reading material on their asses and chests so we don't get bored too quickly while staring at them.