guys, what would you do if your gf started to gain weight?

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Saga

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Did they close the L&R forum?

Thats like asking if they closed the gay bar. Unless you hang out with the drama queens you probably don't have any fucking idea.

In this case the circle jerk of attention whores that is L&R is the same thing. We avoid them and, thankfully, they avoid us. I'm pretty sure the average person seeing Xstatic1 type would constantly bash her for how she comes off like how a down syndrome person would sound in type if you could translate the broken slurred typically scattered things they say out loud.

All I can say is thank god that amazingly terrible soap opera wannabe is not listed on the sidebar, it saves me the trouble of hiding it.
 

xCxStylex

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I agree with Dumac, and I also partially agree with a previous poster that said that if you care about 5 lbs, you may be too shallow for the relationship.

5 is not much and can come and go (I'm a fat skinny guy that's 5'6 and weighs 125), but if she gains 10 pounds that's quite a lot.

Also, if you're that worried about her weight and health, you had damn better be too taking care of yourself too. Otherwise, you're just shallow and have a sense of entitlement.

Anyway, if you really think shes unhealthily gaining weight, try working out together. Go swimming together or take hikes. Also, there might be underlying reasons (depression, stress?) for the weight gain.


If I wanted my gf to lose weight, I would become a lot more active (gym, hikes, swimming, etc) in order to encourage her to participate and lose weight.

They say that the easiest way to get your SO to exercise is by setting an example yourself.

That said, five pounds is not a lot of weight.

Also, 5'5 and 110lbs sounds way to stick like for my liking. It is also technically underweight.
 

ultimatebob

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Buy her some exercise gear and withold sex until she loses weight

Ha! Good luck with that one, buddy. Either you'll cave in first, or she'll just find someone else to take care of her "needs". *

* Unless she's so fat that she can't convince someone to have an affair with her.
 

schneiderguy

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TI'm pretty sure the average person seeing Xstatic1 type would constantly bash her for how she comes off like how a down syndrome person would sound in type if you could translate the broken slurred typically scattered things they say out loud.

:awe:
 

TruePaige

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Thats like asking if they closed the gay bar. Unless you hang out with the drama queens you probably don't have any fucking idea.

In this case the circle jerk of attention whores that is L&R is the same thing. We avoid them and, thankfully, they avoid us. I'm pretty sure the average person seeing Xstatic1 type would constantly bash her for how she comes off like how a down syndrome person would sound in type if you could translate the broken slurred typically scattered things they say out loud.

All I can say is thank god that amazingly terrible soap opera wannabe is not listed on the sidebar, it saves me the trouble of hiding it.

After reading this I went to L&R to read some of her posts.

..

...Fuck.
 

AreaCode707

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By and large this is none of your business as long as she's still at a healthy weight.

As long as she's healthy, it's not your place to comment on how much she weighs or how she eats.

If "5 lbs and no end in sight" is too much for you, break up with her. It's your right to make that decision. She's better off knowing early that whether you care more about whether her looks fit into your rigid standards than you do about her.
 

MotF Bane

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110 lbs? She was already a fatty. Harpoon her. This is the only choice. 5'5" should be about 80 lbs. :awe:
 

MotF Bane

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Wife does family and marriage counseling. Had a woman that came in complaining the her hubby didn't want to have sex with her anymore. Hubby comes in and says,"1.5 years ago, when we got married, she was a size 2. Now she's a size 14." Enough said, for him anyway.

:eek:
 

Saga

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After reading this I went to L&R to read some of her posts.

..

...Fuck.

See. I fucking told you. The sad thing is there are so many more that are pure comedy goldmines, she's just the first one that came to mind from my, oh I don't know, three posts ever in L&R that are hopefully my last. People like her wouldn't survive five seconds in the OT, and everything she fucking types makes me think she's 26 chained in her parents basement and never sees the light of day except through cracks when the feeding gate is opened to drop down stale bread and cheese.
 

KeithTalent

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Punch in her in the thyroid!

Honestly though, if I was in love, then I would not care that much but I probably would, in some subtle way, try and get her out for more exercising and I'd also take on the responsibility of preparing healthier food for both of us.

KT
 

TruePaige

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See. I fucking told you. The sad thing is there are so many more that are pure comedy goldmines, she's just the first one that came to mind from my, oh I don't know, three posts ever in L&R that are hopefully my last. People like her wouldn't survive five seconds in the OT, and everything she fucking types makes me think she's 26 chained in her parents basement and never sees the light of day except through cracks when the feeding gate is opened to drop down stale bread and cheese.

Yeah, I've hardly ever been in there. The amount of self-doubt, hedonism, and narcissism mixes into a bit of a toxic swirl.

At least P&N doesn't lie to itself, it knows it is a hostile environment. :p
 

skim milk

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I like my women to be around 80lbs max
anything more is too fat for me, I can't stand looking at her