sandorski
No Lifer
- Oct 10, 1999
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This is a recurring theme from people for are for gun control; they call out people who carry guns as living in fear (not singling anyone out, pointing out something about the crowd in general) - this kept coming up in the George Zimmerman thread. These people however don't seem to realize that it's about NOT living in fear, that it's about going around knowing you're fine.
I carry a knife to work (pocket knife, not spring loaded, legal length and all that) because a coworker made it sound like they intended to end their life, and made it clear they did not like me. As a former firefighter and the Redmond PD made very clear to me, when people decide to end it, they often try to take someone with them. So my carrying a knife was simply about my wishing to be ready for the possibility that they're want to take me with them. I'd love to be better armed - frankly, with a baton. I'd far value a flick out baton in my jacket over a knife or a gun in many situations. But while I'm licensed to carry a gun concealed in WA (and will soon be licensed to carry a gun concealed in 32 states) I'm NOT allowed to carry a baton. Because it's a deadly weapon.
Anyway, on topic - it's not about being a 'pussy' - it's about being able to deal with anything that happens. As you so keenly pointed out, it's the difference between being able to do nothing should someone break in, or being able to protect yourself and your loved ones. Sure, you go about enjoying life. But what if the guy breaks in and kills your family. Maybe they would have preferred to live.
By definition what you are describing is Fear. The chances of those things happening is exceedingly small.