I agree and disagree with you on this single post Craig.
This is what I disagree with. First, it IS hypocrisy. If someone feels that strongly about it, they should under no circumstance do it regardless if it is "allowed" or everyone else is doing it. That is actually the definition of hypocrisy.
He also didn't make this statement until after the fact. So.... maybe something happened that made him change his mind and wake up? Sometimes people do things that they don't think anything is wrong with until after they are exposed to it. Maybe this is the case here. Maybe he is truly being a hypocrite to degree because in the end he feels the end justifies the means so long as the means "don't hurt anyone" but his own pride. We can't say at this point so it's a non-issue.
Look at it this way, I am a non-theist, and don't agree with any Church out there. Why? because it took me going to various houses of worships for various religions to come to my conclusion. Yah, this is almost an anecdotal argument, but the point I'm getting across is that going to Churches and being a non-theist isn't hypocritical in my case. It took me being exposed to form my opinions.
I'm not sure what the agree part was, but I'm a bit surprised at the amount of objection to this issue.
The basic idea is there is a spectrum of opinion on behavrio, and some is hypocritical some is not.
If you had responded to the Sam Donaldson anecdote, it would help clarify your objection.
Part of it lies in your 'if he objects that strongly' phrase.
You did not say anything abou tmy previous explanation, the idea of inherently objectionable versus the idea of rules everyone should be following but if not enacted it's ok not to follow.
Having nothing to go on to my previous points that were not answered, I'll add more.
Since this is still not seemiog understood I'll add a very strong example the other direction.
Let's say you and a group want to see a film, and you suggest avatar while others pick another film.
At that point, are you morally obligated to see Avatar alone since you suggested it, or can you see the other film with the group instead? Are you hypocritical for recommending avatar but seeing the other film?
I don't want to hear 'but that's riducluous, it's harmless' now. After several explanations without explanations, it's needed.
You can gradually ratchet up the example - if you're playing softball and you say 'this is a fun game, let's allow 5 strikes' with your team agreeing, but the other team says 'no, 3 strikes' and you do that, are you then obligated to give them 5 strikes while you only get 3? Are you hypocritical for suggesting 5 but only giving them 3 with everyone else?
I could add more, but let's skip ahead - you say "we politicians should not accept special interest money", but the other side doesn't agree and it doesn't pass. So the rules of the 'game' are 'players' can take it.
So should you let the other side take millions, while you take none and can't get elected? Is it hypocritical for you to support ending the donations for everyone, but follow the same rules until it passes?
What I'm saying is that this falls short of something so immoral you are saying no one should do it period, like, say, taking criminal bribes. IN that case, if another lawmaker does it, you can't say "then I will too".
(Now, if it were so extreme the other side were all taking tons of bribes and wining elections and someting was broken in enforcing the law, that could raise another question, but let's not overdo this).
If that helps, great. If not, try responding to the many examples I've posted like Sam Donaldson.