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Give us her phone number. We'll do the breakup for you.

We'll be sure to tell her how you asked ATOT for ideas how to break up with her without having the guts to do it yourself.
 
Originally posted by: thomsbrain
so let's see... YOU'RE too much a wimp to break up with a girl and stick to it. so you're going to treat HER poorly and break HER heart. you have the problem, she gets the punishment. good thinking, smart guy.

how about you cut your fvcking crap, give her a chance at having a young adulthood not filled with trust issues and man-hating, and get on with your miserable life.

what really blows my mind is you're in college, and not in third grade.

guys don't understand that when they cheat on a girl, it's not like the girl gets mad, breaks up with you, and then everything is hunky-dory. girls that get cheated on get fvcked in the head, especially if you're not the first asswipe to try it on them. it can take them a lot of time to get over it. as in years. as in maybe never. you're playing games with a HUMAN BEING, so think about that before you lie and mess with her head.

now for the constructive advice: tell her, "look, you know i like you, but i simply do NOT have time for a relationship right now. maybe sometime in the future, but for now, please don't call me. if i get my stuff sorted out, and i can handle being with you, i'll call you. i'm sorry."
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QFT
 
Originally posted by: cyberfuzz
for the past week ive been trying so hard to have her break up with me, but i apparantly just made her mad, but not enough for her to want to break up. I tried not answering her calls, being a total dick, not seeing her, hanging up on her. pretty much everything except cheat on her. i tried breaking up with her twice already and we end up making up the next day. i really care for her, but ive got wayyyy too much stuff going on in my life right now to have a serious gf. So since i failed at breaking up with her, i figured eh how bout i get her to break up with me. i was talking to this girl in my public speaking class and she had the idea to fill my camera phone up with picture of hot chicks in my classes. (except one class is a lecture with 200 students, and the other is an engineering class with 30 guys and 1 female, who could pass as a male).

has anyone else tried to have your gf break up with you without cheating on her?? gimmi some ideas here folks.
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Yeah good Idea, make someone who really cares for you hurt emotionally:thumbsdown:
 
There's a word for this. Hmmmm what is it again???

Wait for it.... wait for it....







PU$$Y!

I have an idea for you: grow some balls.
 
Why can you not tell her the truth? Tell her you need a breather for a few months. During that time she can date whom she wants, but you simply do not have the time for it right now. But you will be back in a few months and if she still wants to go out with you then shabam!
 
Originally posted by: thomsbrain
so let's see... YOU'RE too much a wimp to break up with a girl and stick to it. so you're going to treat HER poorly and break HER heart. you have the problem, she gets the punishment. good thinking, smart guy.

how about you cut your fvcking crap, give her a chance at having a young adulthood not filled with trust issues and man-hating, and get on with your miserable life.

what really blows my mind is you're in college, and not in third grade.

guys don't understand that when they cheat on a girl, it's not like the girl gets mad, breaks up with you, and then everything is hunky-dory. girls that get cheated on get fvcked in the head, especially if you're not the first asswipe to try it on them. it can take them a lot of time to get over it. as in years. as in maybe never. you're playing games with a HUMAN BEING, so think about that before you lie and mess with her head.

now for the constructive advice: tell her, "look, you know i like you, but i simply do NOT have time for a relationship right now. maybe sometime in the future, but for now, please don't call me. if i get my stuff sorted out, and i can handle being with you, i'll call you. i'm sorry."
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ka-ching.

if you really "care for her" then you'd sit down with her, and address your concerns, and see what her response is. Hey, she's your gf, just maybe she can try and cope with it. If not, then that's that, you're done.

 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: b0mbrman
Ask for anal. If she's not gonna break up with you for it, at least you get anal...
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you prefer that?
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Meh...it was an experience. Not something I want or need to do all the time.

Ah, the joys of a waning relationship
 
Originally posted by: gsaldivar
Originally posted by: Sunbird
Keep insisting on a 3some with one of her hot female friends, and I mean, insist!
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Thought-stealer. 🙂
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The fact that a third party has to agree makes this a win-neutral situation. Why shoot the moon when going for anal is win-win?
 
What ever happened to just dumping her? Try walking up to her and say "I like you but I don't have time for a girlfriend so lets just be friends" and then try saying no a few times when she asks you out to places.
 
cause i want to be with her, but i cant right now. i just have too much riding on these next couple months that im going to be too busy for a relationship.
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what exactly are you going to be doing that you will be too busy to date? I dont get it.


if you really "care for her" then you'd sit down with her, and address your concerns, and see what her response is. Hey, she's your gf, just maybe she can try and cope with it. If not, then that's that, you're done.
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agreed, if you both truly want to be together you can work out reduced time together or whatever it takes to get through the busy time. Cuz i guarantee, if you breakup now cuz your too busy... it aint like when your not busy no more she gonna be there waiting to take you back. she'll be like f that.



grow da fvck up.
 
here is a funny story:
a friend of mine wanted to break up with his gf so badly but they had a lot of mutual friends he didn't want to lose. So he became the biggest asshole until finally she flipped out and dumped him on valentines day.
Then he used that as the sad story to take all their friends onto his side.
hah!

just breakup with her and then don't talk to her the next day to make up. (duh)
 
Originally posted by: eakers
here is a funny story:
a friend of mine wanted to break up with his gf so badly but they had a lot of mutual friends he didn't want to lose. So he became the biggest asshole until finally she flipped out and dumped him on valentines day.
Then he used that as the sad story to take all their friends onto his side.
hah!

just breakup with her and then don't talk to her the next day to make up. (duh)
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Heh heh. I enjoy that story 🙂
 
Grow up, I would've thought you were in highschool until I saw you mention college. Grow a pair and man the fvck up instead of trying to ruin someone else's life for your benefit.
 
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