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Grrrr....gf's sis staying for a few...

Gibson486

Lifer
Aug 9, 2000
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months...

She kind of fell on face, so we are taking her in so she can get back on her feet.

She just ended her 9 month marriage to some dude from Alabama (divorce is not even official). She moved down there and ended up pretty much ruining her life for the next whoever knows months.

I enjoyed her company before, so I thought, may not be too bad. Atleast i can knock down a few beers while she is here.

It's only been 3 days and I am already getting pissed.

Cliffs of what she has done:

1. Refuses to get work at dept. store b/c she wants work at a resteraunt.

You need an f'n clue! You decided to f up college, the army, and a life of free living with your parents. Just take what you can get now. Keep applying, but do not deny work because it does not give tips. AND WTF? Why do we have to go drop off your application between the time of 2-5? Just drop the f'n thing off.

2. Calls this friend with benfits FOB spanish guy for hours every night.

WTF! You just left Alabama to get away from it all. Either you leave it or go back. Don't f'n act like I did not understand some spanish either. I definately heard you say, "My sis will not mind you staying over for a few days" while my gf was not in the room.

3. She uses my phone every night, since I have free nights and weekends, to call that guy. She leaves it on my gf's vanity every morning with no battery.

WTF! the charger is right there. I do not enjoy getting random texts in spanish that say "I love you"...and I certainly do not enjoy the charges I get with it.

4. She finds out i do not go to church every Sunday and that I believe in evolution. Now I am a "lost soul".

I am sorry I am not gonna be intolerent like you.... I am not even gonna start with this.

5. She says we do not party enough....

Umm....Sorry, but we got that out of system during college. We are not going to change our life style and habits to fit you. if you want to go out, party, and get drunk every night, that's all you. It's not my fault you said college was not option because you could not get past the a 1400 score to get into a top 10 school, so you just decided to go to the army instead and f that up. Oh my...the horrors of going to a state scool for free...:roll:

Sorry....but she just woke me up at 7 in the f'n morning lauging her ass off to something. It's 7 in the f'n morning on a Sunday and she cannot shut the f up.



*update*
So much drama....

Well....my gf is getting more pissed than me.

She talks on the phone hours on end (she finally got her own)....and my gf tells her to talk in the hall. We hear every dam conversation she has every night. She just talks back and keeps talking on the phone, She says that we can close the door. Well...closing the door does not help much b/c my apt is only 780 SQ FT.

My gf gave her an ultimatum. Talk in the hall way when you get a phone call or leave. She just talks back and claims that my gf will not comprimise. It's an f'n headache hearing her talk on the phone then hearing two sisters battle it out.

She claims she is out on Dec. 1. I cannot wait.


As promised...

http://pics.bbzzdd.com/users/abchin486/DSCF0344.JPG <-----pic of my gf

*update

I put my foot down.... and just went off....she now talks in the hallway. Told her that if she does not listen, then she should leave.

We will see how long she listens.

 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
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Originally posted by: Gibson486
months...

She kind of fell on face, so we are taking her in so she can get back on her feet.

She just ended her 9 month marriage to some dude from Alabama (divorce is not even official). She moved down there and ended up pretty much ruining her life for the next whoever knows months.

I enjoyed her company before, so I thought, may not be too bad. Atleast i can knock down a few beers while she is here.

It's only been 3 days and I am already getting pissed.

Cliffs of what she has done:

1. Refuses to get work at dept. store b/c she wants work at a resteraunt.

You need an f'n clue! You decided to f up college, the army, and a life of free living with your parents. Just take what you can get now. Keep applying, but do not deny work because it does not give tips. AND WTF? Why do we have to go drop off your application between the time of 2-5? Just drop the f'n thing off.

2. Calls this friend with benfits FOB spanish guy for hours every night.

WTF! You just left Alabama to get away from it all. Either you leave it or go back. Don't f'n act like I did not understand some spanish either. I definately heard you say, "My sis will not mind you staying over for a few days" while my gf was not in the room.

3. She uses my phone every night, since I have free nights and weekends, to call that guy. She leaves it on my gf's vanity every morning with no battery.

WTF! the charger is right there. I do not enjoy getting random texts in spanish that say "I love you"...and I certainly do not enjoy the charges I get with it.

4. She finds out i do not go to church every Sunday and that I believe in evolution. Now I am a "lost soul".

I am sorry I am not gonna be intolerent like you.... I am not even gonna start with this.

5. She says we do not party enough....

Umm....Sorry, but we got that out of system during college. We are not going to change our life style and habits to fit you. if you want to go out, party, and get drunk every night, that's all you. It's not my fault you said college was not option because you could not get past the a 1400 score to get into a top 10 school, so you just decided to go to the army instead and f that up. Oh my...the horrors of going to a state scool for free...:roll:

Sorry....but she just woke me up at 7 in the f'n morning lauging her ass off to something. It's 7 in the f'n morning on a Sunday and she cannot shut the f up.

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throw her ass out!!!!!!! she's nothing but trouble. dont wait till she "accidently" burns down your house!!!
 

db

Lifer
Dec 6, 1999
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People like her tend to never leave. How does your g/f feel about it?

ps - the longer she stays, the harder it will be to get rid of her. It could come down to your g/f having to chose b/t you and her sister.
A similar thing happened at my place. I set a deadline by which she had to leave.
Both women wound up moving out.
Then the free-loader stayed over there for almost a year until the police were called over her being locked out. She was not on the rental agreement so had no rights. Then she moved in with a new set of victims to live for free.
 

BrokenVisage

Lifer
Jan 29, 2005
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This doesn't sound good, cut your loses and dump the g/f ASAP. Plenty of fish in the sea without psycho sisters.
 

RaistlinZ

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Oct 15, 2001
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This is not going to end well, methinks. If you try to be tough with her your G/F will resent you. If you're not tough with her then she'll never leave unless you sell your house and she's forced to leave.

It doesn't sound like she's serious about wanting to get back on her feet anytime soon. And she has a coushy situation now so what's the rush?
 

mmallern2000

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Yikes! This is an awful situation! I would talk to your girlfriend about it, and let her know how you feel. Then I would do like was suggested and set a deadline. Having the sister move in only bodes badly for your relationship with your girlfriend.
 

mmallern2000

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Also, I would tell the sister that you don't appreciate the phone not being charged, and do an fyi, I do speak spanish, and we do not want this guy in our house. We do not know him, we do not trust him, he will not be staying here, or else you can leave.
 

AnonymouseUser

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May 14, 2003
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Pretty fucked up situation you are in, I hate it for you. Suggestions:

1. You don't care if she works in a restaurant or department store, she has 2 months to get a place of her own.

2. She can stay at his house for a few days.

3. She can get her own phone. She had a chance to use yours responsibly and she fucked that up.

4. ...

5. Throw a party with your (you and gf) friends. She isn't your friend, so she's not invited.
 

BrownTown

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Dec 1, 2005
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This thread reminds me of a picture that I cannot post here but can be obtained by typing "little sisters 4chan" into Google... :p

Except its not quite going as planned from your angle :(
 

Gibson486

Lifer
Aug 9, 2000
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Originally posted by: BrownTown
This thread reminds me of a picture that I cannot post here but can be obtained by typing "little sisters 4chan" into Google... :p

Except its not quite going as planned from your angle :(

pm?????
 

olds

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Mar 3, 2000
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Do the sister so she can get rid of the FWB guy.
One item solved.
 

AlienCraft

Lifer
Nov 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: Gibson486
months...

She kind of fell on face, so we are taking her in so she can get back on her feet.

She just ended her 9 month marriage to some dude from Alabama (divorce is not even official). She moved down there and ended up pretty much ruining her life for the next whoever knows months.

I enjoyed her company before, so I thought, may not be too bad. Atleast i can knock down a few beers while she is here.

It's only been 3 days and I am already getting pissed.

Cliffs of what she has done:

1. Refuses to get work at dept. store b/c she wants work at a resteraunt.

You need an f'n clue! You decided to f up college, the army, and a life of free living with your parents. Just take what you can get now. Keep applying, but do not deny work because it does not give tips. AND WTF? Why do we have to go drop off your application between the time of 2-5? Just drop the f'n thing off.

2. Calls this friend with benfits FOB spanish guy for hours every night.

WTF! You just left Alabama to get away from it all. Either you leave it or go back. Don't f'n act like I did not understand some spanish either. I definately heard you say, "My sis will not mind you staying over for a few days" while my gf was not in the room.

3. She uses my phone every night, since I have free nights and weekends, to call that guy. She leaves it on my gf's vanity every morning with no battery.

WTF! the charger is right there. I do not enjoy getting random texts in spanish that say "I love you"...and I certainly do not enjoy the charges I get with it.

4. She finds out i do not go to church every Sunday and that I believe in evolution. Now I am a "lost soul".

I am sorry I am not gonna be intolerent like you.... I am not even gonna start with this.

5. She says we do not party enough....

Umm....Sorry, but we got that out of system during college. We are not going to change our life style and habits to fit you. if you want to go out, party, and get drunk every night, that's all you. It's not my fault you said college was not option because you could not get past the a 1400 score to get into a top 10 school, so you just decided to go to the army instead and f that up. Oh my...the horrors of going to a state scool for free...:roll:

Sorry....but she just woke me up at 7 in the f'n morning lauging her ass off to something. It's 7 in the f'n morning on a Sunday and she cannot shut the f up.
W.T.F ?
A lifer griping about a Gf's sister and no :camera:'s???!?11?
WTF is that?
The world is coming off it's wheels people!!!1!