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greedy/selfish or being smart?

PCboy

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my friend gets angry over 2 dollar tips and $10 donations and if I do that, he calls me stupid and says why dont you just donate 1 dollar dummy. Is that being greedy? or being smart for saving money? :frown: he just started this crap over again when I gave a 3 dollar tip to a barber and since it was his money he started all these arguments.. and it's freaking annoying.
 
Tips are supposed to be proportional to the service charged. Usually 15% or more. If you tip less, you are being rude and cheap, unless the quality of service was very very poor.
 
Originally posted by: PCboy
my friend gets angry over 2 dollar tips and $10 donations and if I do that, he calls me stupid and says why dont you just donate 1 dollar dummy. Is that being greedy? or being smart for saving money? :frown: he just started this crap over again when I gave a 3 dollar tip to a barber and since it was his money he and started all these arguments.. and it's freaking annoying.


I don't understand😱
😕
 
Originally posted by: lirion
Originally posted by: PCboy
my friend gets angry over 2 dollar tips and $10 donations and if I do that, he calls me stupid and says why dont you just donate 1 dollar dummy. Is that being greedy? or being smart for saving money? :frown: he just started this crap over again when I gave a 3 dollar tip to a barber and since it was his money he and started all these arguments.. and it's freaking annoying.


I don't understand😱
😕

sigh... just tell me whether or not a person is greedy for not giving $10 donations to D.A.R.E or not giving a $2 tip to a barber... is he being smart for saving money or is he being greedy?

is that better? 🙂
 
tell him that if he doesn't like how you spend the money he loans, to stop loaning out the money. He's being foolish.
 
Originally posted by: Rkonster
Tips are supposed to be proportional to the service charged. Usually 15% or more. If you tip less, you are being rude and cheap, unless the quality of service was very very poor.

And who says less than 15% is rude and cheap?? 15% usually is for restaurants... for pizza/chinese delivery, dependant on the amount of the order, and for a barber/hair stylist, usually a couple bucks... I usually tip by these guidelines, no problems that I've seen...

 
Originally posted by: Rkonster
Tips are supposed to be proportional to the service charged. Usually 15% or more. If you tip less, you are being rude and cheap, unless the quality of service was very very poor.

I don't agree with the concept of calculating tip based on the price of service/merchandise purchased, but I just do it, because soceity says so.

It is no more difficult to serve five people at a table with $5.99 meal than it is to serve each of them $15.99 New York steak meal.

Why should the server doing the first example get paid $4.50 in tip when the server doing the second example get paid $12.00 in tip when it is basically the same amount of work?

I can sort of relate this to Marxism where wages of employee should be proportional to the profit of selling the goods they produced.
 
Originally posted by: PCboy
Originally posted by: lirion
Originally posted by: PCboy
my friend gets angry over 2 dollar tips and $10 donations and if I do that, he calls me stupid and says why dont you just donate 1 dollar dummy. Is that being greedy? or being smart for saving money? :frown: he just started this crap over again when I gave a 3 dollar tip to a barber and since it was his money he and started all these arguments.. and it's freaking annoying.


I don't understand😱
😕

sigh... just tell me if a person is greedy for not giving $10 donations to D.A.R.E or not giving a $2 tip to a barber... or is he being smart for saving money.


D.A.R.E is worthless and evil. If D.A.R.E was on fire and went around asking people to put it out I wouldn't even pee on it. Personally I think the whole situation of tipping is stupid and whoever started it should be shot, but like it or not that's how businesses work now, and not tipping is greedy and selfish.

 
you and your friend should stop seein each other. i think he is bein frugal which isnt wrong, but ya just spare yourself the drama and stop seein him.

FUCKING KEYBOARD STICKY WITH MOUNTAIN DEW!!!!
 
Originally posted by: jazzhound
you and your friend should stop seein each other. i think he is bein frugal which isnt wrong, but ya just spare yourself the drama and stop seein him.

FUCKING KEYBOARD STICKY WITH MOUNTAIN DEW!!!!

lol. i see him once in awhile but i only go with him because he has a 911. Besides, he's paying for the gas. 😉
 
On tips, just give them what you think they deserve. I hate how sometimes people are obligated to pay 15% at restaurants that give them terrible service. If your barber did a great job, $2-3 is justified but normally I don't think people tip more than a dollar for a haircut that costs only $10.
 
Originally posted by: JSClark
Originally posted by: Rkonster
Tips are supposed to be proportional to the service charged. Usually 15% or more. If you tip less, you are being rude and cheap, unless the quality of service was very very poor.

And who says less than 15% is rude and cheap?? 15% usually is for restaurants... for pizza/chinese delivery, dependant on the amount of the order, and for a barber/hair stylist, usually a couple bucks... I usually tip by these guidelines, no problems that I've seen...

For a barber/hair stylist, a couple bucks usually is around 15%. And I meant that if you tip much less, let's say 5%, you are being rude and cheap. I should have been more clear.
 
buffet is usually 5-10%, since the waiter/ress isn't doing much, plus, use your judgement.

i.e. you and 10 friends are at a table for three hours, ordering round after round of food, wine, spirits, and having a good time. any time I'm in that situation (hah...) I'd tip at least 20-30%.

fast food usually people don't tip, if the owner of the establishment personally serves you, do not tip (i.e. if Big John of Big John's BBQ Rib Shack makes your ribs himself, no tips. its viewed as rude in that case [can you say "bribe"?]).

5% for bellboys, 10% for room service, a buck or so for an elevator operator, and so on.

I hate etiquette.

speaking of which, the french invented "etiquiette"... once, some time ago, a french nobleman had guests. to avoid confusion, he had basic rules for conduct written on tickets (e tiquette) and given to the dinner guests . sonofagun. grumblegrumble
 
Originally posted by: PCboy
my friend gets angry over 2 dollar tips and $10 donations and if I do that, he calls me stupid and says why dont you just donate 1 dollar dummy. Is that being greedy? or being smart for saving money? :frown: he just started this crap over again when I gave a 3 dollar tip to a barber and since it was his money he started all these arguments.. and it's freaking annoying.


UM.
straight guys don't talk like this. If you like chicks, be a man dude and tell him to STFU. If he is your bf or something, and he is paying for the laying, then YOU should STFU or get a better bf. Not that there is anything wrong with liking guys.
 
Originally posted by: PCboy
Originally posted by: jazzhound
you and your friend should stop seein each other. i think he is bein frugal which isnt wrong, but ya just spare yourself the drama and stop seein him.

FUCKING KEYBOARD STICKY WITH MOUNTAIN DEW!!!!

lol. i see him once in awhile but i only go with him because he has a 911. Besides, he's paying for the gas. 😉
He has a 911 and is being an ass about a 2 dollar tip?:Q
 
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: PCboy
Originally posted by: jazzhound
you and your friend should stop seein each other. i think he is bein frugal which isnt wrong, but ya just spare yourself the drama and stop seein him.

FUCKING KEYBOARD STICKY WITH MOUNTAIN DEW!!!!

lol. i see him once in awhile but i only go with him because he has a 911. Besides, he's paying for the gas. 😉
He has a 911 and is being an ass about a 2 dollar tip?:Q

exactly... my point. He even has a Sequioa/Sequoia he's not using. :disgust:
 
Originally posted by: PCboy
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: PCboy
Originally posted by: jazzhound
you and your friend should stop seein each other. i think he is bein frugal which isnt wrong, but ya just spare yourself the drama and stop seein him.

FUCKING KEYBOARD STICKY WITH MOUNTAIN DEW!!!!

lol. i see him once in awhile but i only go with him because he has a 911. Besides, he's paying for the gas. 😉
He has a 911 and is being an ass about a 2 dollar tip?:Q

exactly... my point. He even has a Sequioa/Sequoia he's not using. :disgust:
Your friend is definetly falls into the loaded but "stingy as a mother" catagory, did he make it himself or is he old money?
 
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