For my graduation, my parents wanted to buy me something nice to reward me.
I asked if, instead, it would be cool if we just skipped the ceremony and they took me, my grandparents and some of my close friends out to dinner, and they liked the idea, too.
It was a lot better than sitting in a gymnasium on a nice spring day listening to crap I don't care about and sitting through a few hundred people having their names called that I will probably never know if I didn't before. It wasn't about the price of the cap and gown and all that stupid stuff, it was about the fact that if I spent 4 years of my life working towards this to celebrate having my name called over a PA system then I felt I'm fooling myself into thinking that I've been successful. Anyone can graduate college. Sure, some programs are harder and some degrees are worthless, but anyone can do it if they want it. Getting a job that you love, spending time with the people that you love and living your life how you want it to be is the real goal. In 10-15 years, the only thing college will be is a couple lines of text on my resume and paper on my wall... maybe a foot in the door when looking for a new job. Yeah, I know it's a big milestone and marks a big change in life, but what do hundreds of other students and an arena full of people give a crap about my hitting that milestone for? Gimme the people that I love to share the moment with, then wake up the next day and get moving again.