Which I thought everyone knew that all chefs cheat on their wives. it's a way of doing business. Yes, it's not right if someone does not have approval or understanding from their spouse or significant other.
I don't know how many times I've known or heard of the ones in Raleigh, Chapel Hill and Durham who accidentally got locked in the storage room with a waitress.
Even in cooking school, the idea of "hot food, hot sex" was preached. My wife and I started dating when I was in school and she accepted it. But I guess she knew I wouldn't find anyone better than her.
edit: I'm pretty sure Anthony Bourdain hooks up with some of his tour guides when he films his 'No Reservations' TV show.