Ok, fair enough. You know, I find it mighty hypocritical how someone just dismisses someone's personal beliefs because said beliefs dont line up with what's "in" or what people want to do.
You guys want gays and lesbians to be respected and accepted in society, well, learn to give it back to those who don't necessarily agree with you all. I guess part of the reason why we can't co-exist, for now anyway, is because one side says "it's an abomination" and the others say "you don't accept me because of inherited ignorance, bigotry, and fear".
It takes two to tango. If both sides of the SSM issue look past their own pride, bigotry, and forced-acceptance, we would have at least a relatively peaceful social society. Until then, nothing positive will happen. Not accepting SSM isn't tantamount to hatred, accepting it isn't sending you to "hell".