going out with ex-gf's

[lightpants]

um..........:camera:'s


Sorry, I had 2 do it!

 

[NutBucket]

Originally posted by: lightpants
um..........:camera:'s


Sorry, I had 2 do it!

Only fitting

 

[white]

she's obviously a nutcase. normally i'd say to just hit it. but this is your friend's sister, not a fvck buddy.

 

[Sid59]

you both need help.

 

[NutBucket]

Originally posted by: white
she's obviously a nutcase. normally i'd say to just hit it. but this is your friend's sister, not a fvck buddy.

If she is a nut case I'd stay far far away. But, since it is your friend's sister just be courteous and don't do anything with her. Its bound to backfire through your friend.

 

[NogginBoink]

Originally posted by: AgaBooga
So you basically want her for sex... nothing else? That won't last, don't waste time on it.

Of course it won't last.

But hell, enjoy it while ya got it!

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

You're only setting yourself up for trouble later down the road for a night or two, i'd get out of it ASAP

I don't thin kits going to last either, because as a second boyfriend, how do you feel she'll stay with you? She gave you up one day for one guy, a little later got back with you, whats makes you think it'll be different other than a promise, marriage, or you really think you were meant to be excuse?

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: Sid59
you both need help.

 

[bootymac]

Go over to her house, and bang her brother instead.

...ok I'm pretty f-ed up

 

[v3rrv3]

Threesome?

- Kevin

 

[upsciLLion]

Don't bother getting involved with her again. She chose that guy over you. Now let her suffer the consequences.

ups

 

[tallest1]

If she gets pregnant, I bet she'll chase you down...... not for sex but for child support

 

[Siddhartha]

"Should I hang out with her and use her for sex? Shes a cool friend and all but I have trust issues with her. As you can see shes cheating on her BF with me."

Using people is bad.

Spending time with someone you do not trust is a bad idea.

There is no guarantee that you will not fall in love with her and then you will be in trouble.

 

[Kevin]

Man, if you bang her again, take the condoms with you. Sounds like she's going to trap you...

 

use for sex until you find someone better.

 

[soulseye]

It sounds to me like your ex has some real issues. She tried to get you to have unprotected sex... and that's a BIG :nono: in my book. ALso, she is willing to switch from you, who loved her, to that guy who obviously doesn't, and back to you. That is so not cool. I would try and lay off the drunk sex or the sober sex for that matter. Don't get mixed up in that business again. Try to be friends only. I think you'll find it to be much better.

 

[tokamak]

Originally posted by: white
she's obviously a nutcase. normally i'd say to just hit it. but this is your friend's sister, not a fvck buddy.

agree

 

[Muck]

Ever consider that the reason she said all those things was that she was drunk and extremely horny?? I'll bet she also told you that she hadn't been f*cked like that since grade school.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: BruinEd03

Originally posted by: yllus

Originally posted by: keystroker
She says she wants to marry me and have my kids (she tried to slip it in without a condom last night) and stuff

No, you should just stop there. Run fast, run far.

paging MichaelD...MichaelD? anyone seen MichaelD...this kid needs a wake up call!

-Ed

[mightymouse] HERE I COME TO SAVE THE DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY![/mightymouse]

Um, that whole "slip it in w/o a condom on" is not a "sign." Know what that is? That's somebody firing a flare gun straight up your rectum.

How's THAT for a wake-up call? :disgust:

She's a basket case, man! No...she's a 51-foot semi trailer full of baskets on the way to your local Garden Ridge/Hobby Lobby.

You saw an opportunity for an easy kill and you went for it; fine, can't say I haven't done that. (Haven't we all? )

But, she's in "needy-clingy mode" right now and only borked you to make her BF mad. I can tell you this; as someone who is in his 30's and likes those young girls, like your EX-GF; this guy doesn't give a damn about her. Seeing someone twice a month does not make her your GF; it makes her your fvck-toy.

W/that age difference, there's nothing to talk about. Get it? No talking? That's why he sees her 2x/month. Wham, Bam and thank you Maam. :beer::evil:

She wants to get knocked up so she is "assured" of having somebody. Notice I didn't say "knocked up by YOU?"

Here's some free advice.

1. Do not sleep w/her anymore
2. Hope to GOD that you didn't get her pregnant
3. Get yourself checked out for STDs
4. See #2

I wish you luck. She's probably in that whore phase too, right now. It wouldn't surprise me if she turns up preggers and tries to blame you. That's what happened to me...but unfortunately, it WAS mine, even though she was sleeping around. :|

 

[clamum]

Originally posted by: FallenHero
use for sex until you find someone better.

Condoms are good too btw

 

[gigapet]

if its good hit it for as long as possible........

 

[ragazzo]

you still have feelings for her. if you keep having sex w/her, eventually those feelings will get stronger and then you're gonna feel like an asshole later.


run now and run fast.

 

[nick1985]

get sterilized

 

[Rapidskies]

You shouldn't be having sex until marriage unless you want children or a disease. Condoms are only 98% effective, so think of it this way, if you have sex 50 times with a condom, 1 out of those 50 times could = a baby. Are you ready to be a Dad?

Also are you ready to get disease? What if you got something like Herpes, guess what everytime you go out with someone that you potentially want to get involved with you will have to break out the "Oh, there is something you might want to know..." . All these people telling you to "hit it" are clueless on real life repercussions.

I won't even go into how wrong it is to use someone who is obviously having issues right now. Sorry if I this sounds harsh, but think of how harsh things could turn out.

 

[PatboyX]

Originally posted by: Whade
You shouldn't be having sex until marriage unless you want children or a disease. Condoms are only 98% effective, so think of it this way, if you have sex 50 times with a condom, 1 out of those 50 times could = a baby. Are you ready to be a Dad?

Also are you ready to get disease? What if you got something like Herpes, guess what everytime you go out with someone that you potentially want to get involved with you will have to break out the "Oh, there is something you might want to know..." . All these people telling you to "hit it" are clueless on real life repercussions.

I won't even go into how wrong it is to use someone who is obviously having issues right now. Sorry if I this sounds harsh, but think of how harsh things could turn out.

whatever happened to The Joy of Sex?

anyway, when i was a lot younger i got in a similiar situation. its really not worth it as far as emotional/physical side-effects are concerned. but at the same time, i understand how hard it can be to remove this person from your life.
try and talk openly with this person about what is going on. try to not put yourself in a situation where you two could have sex. (if thats what you want, of course)
but really: be careful.