going out with ex-gf's

[keystroker]

Well I went camping with my ex-gf (first girl i banged) for the forth of july. She invited me when I showed up to her house because her brother and I are friends. I broke up with her about a year and a half ago because she wanted another guy and I was in love with her and she sorta wanted me as a secondary boyfriend if things didn't work out with him (it seemed). So since then I pretty much grew out of the love factor with girls and more into the sex part. So things with her bf that shes seeing now are really shaky (the guy who she wanted before) like hes cheating on her all the time and only sees her 2 times a month because hes 30 and shes 19. Well we hooked up big time last night, I mean awesome drunk sex all night. She says she wants to marry me and have my kids (she tried to slip it in without a condom last night) and stuff but I think shes trying to make me love her. Shes a real mess. Should I hang out with her and use her for sex? Shes a cool friend and all but I have trust issues with her. As you can see shes cheating on her BF with me. I just think we are good funk buddies for now. I mean she lives around the block from me.

 

[conjur]

And the point is.....

 

[Yossarian]

You have some issues.

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

So you basically want her for sex... nothing else? That won't last, don't waste time on it.

 

[keystroker]

just wondering if anyone has any similar situations

 

[yllus]

Originally posted by: keystroker
She says she wants to marry me and have my kids (she tried to slip it in without a condom last night) and stuff

No, you should just stop there. Run fast, run far.

 

[keystroker]

i have feelings for her but I mean I keep my guard up. shes a good friend and i think shes kidding when she was talking about getting married i think she likes it just for the sex and friendship. no love :brokenheart:

 

[BruinEd03]

Originally posted by: yllus

Originally posted by: keystroker
She says she wants to marry me and have my kids (she tried to slip it in without a condom last night) and stuff

No, you should just stop there. Run fast, run far.

paging MichaelD...MichaelD? anyone seen MichaelD...this kid needs a wake up call!

-Ed

 

[DamageInc]

Get out of this while you can.

 

[jonmullen]

Stop posting....and never procreate

 

[flyfish]

run, Run, RUN!!! You will regret it for the rest of your life, if you don't!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[toekramp]

Originally posted by: keystroker
just wondering if anyone has any similar situations

yeup, get the hell away

 

[isekii]

yea man that's not cool of her to try and get pregnant to be with you.

that's pretty focked up if you ask anyone.

 

[boyRacer]

you said so yourself... you're just a secondary boyfriend. i dunno about you but you got what you wanted already last Friday... so leave it as that.

 

[UnatcoAgent]

"she's a real mess"

Maybe you should help her asshole.

 

[silverpig]

Hit it. Hit it and don't stop hitting it until she goes totally psycho. But remember, double wrap it, and flush immediately. Leave NOTHING usable behind.

 

[Shawn]

umm that's all fvcked up.

 

[rgwalt]

I've never been in a similar situation myself, but I know people that have. Having someone who is just a friend with benefits leads to disaster. One of you will become attached, and the other will want to move on. It sounds like this girl is a real head-case right now. She doesn't need you in her life just using her for sex. If she is really your friend, you should tell her to break up with this 30 year old tool and spend some time getting herself ready to date again.

Did she tell you that she wants to marry you and have your kids while she was drunk? If so, I bet she feels differently sober. Also, what 30 year old guy would go messing around on a 19 year old girl, unless it is with other hot, young girls? I'll never understand that.

R

 

[EvilYoda]

Just be careful...obviously, it's just entirely up to you, just don't act before you think, or you might have a kid or unwanted relationship on your hands before you know it.

If it were me, I'd make her feel like sh*t...but that's just cuz I'm bitter as hell towards my ex, whereas I have no idea how you feel. I don't know how you could even fathom getting close to her again if she broke up with you before because she wanted another guy. Just do her a few times, lead her on, and dump her like week old milk.

 

[leung324]

just enjoy your free sex

 

[Ns1]

you suck at the internet

 

[Mallow]

Originally posted by: silverpig
Hit it. Hit it and don't stop hitting it until she goes totally psycho. But remember, double wrap it, and flush immediately. Leave NOTHING usable behind.

lol

 

[JSang]

Originally posted by: AgaBooga
So you basically want her for sex... nothing else? That won't last, don't waste time on it.

i think the point is not to have it last, but to enjoy it while it does?

 

[BCskunk]

awesome drunk sex..

N i c e =)

 

[AnyMal]

Nah, don't listen to anyone, go ahead and bang her. Don't use the condom, I mean she wouldn't set you up, right? And if she does get pregnant, just marry her, I am sure she will make a wonderful wife and mother, very caring and fathful. Enjoy.