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Going on a date/ need some pointers

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pcman2002b

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Okay I called this girl up who is really hot, invited her to see David Copperfield. Amazingly she agreed. I'm no looker, and am certainly not a romantic guy.
I'm thinking about extending the offer to include dinner at a fancy place in addition to the show.

Here is where I need help guys (or gals). I need some pointers that will help me be non-cholant (SP) when I'm with her. I feel totally wierd when I'm with chicks and have trouble talking to them even though I know them really well. I want to set a good first impression. Help me out.

Thanks in advance.
 
Originally posted by: pcman2002b
Okay I called this girl up who is really hot, invited her to see David Copperfield. Amazingly she agreed. I'm no looker, and am certainly not a romantic guy.
I'm thinking about extending the offer to include dinner at a fancy place in addition to the show.

Here is where I need help guys (or gals). I need some pointers that will help me be non-cholant (SP) when I'm with her. I feel totally wierd when I'm with chicks and have trouble talking to them even though I know them really well. I want to set a good first impression. Help me out.

Thanks in advance.
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You have more balls then 99.9999999% of the male members on this forum.

Hell, I only really got to know my girlfriend when she gave me a call first 😱
 
While asking for help from others is overall a good thing, it is not a good sign. If things work out, she will eventually have to accept you for what you are. Be careful but don't project a false image of yourself. Be honest, relax and have fun.
 
Originally posted by: joohang
While asking for help from others is overall a good thing, it is not a good sign. If things work out, she will eventually have to accept you for what you are. Be careful but don't project a false image of yourself. Be honest, relax and have fun.
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yeah that too....but still try to get her liquored up
 
Look fore EVERY, ANY, & ALL opportunities to have sex.

I agree, also dont shower for a few days and get some serious funk going the chicks dig it.
 
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
 
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
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Or she's desperate. But we don't want to think about that right now.


Good luck, btw. You'll do fine.
 
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
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Or she's desperate. But we don't want to think about that right now.


Good luck, btw. You'll do fine.
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try and freak him out a little more, eh?
 
Originally posted by: minus1972
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
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Or she's desperate. But we don't want to think about that right now.


Good luck, btw. You'll do fine.
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try and freak him out a little more, eh?
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Eh.
 
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
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Or she's desperate. But we don't want to think about that right now.


Good luck, btw. You'll do fine.
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I can't imagine that this girl would be desperate she is so incredibly beautful, unless of course she sucks at relationships as bad as I do, then I got nothin' to worry about!
 
Originally posted by: pcman2002b
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
CONFIDENCE MAN! YOU ARE A LOOKER. YOU ARE A ROMANTIC GUY. just repeat it a couple times. hell if she agreed she sees SOMETHIGN in you.
Click to expand...

Or she's desperate. But we don't want to think about that right now.


Good luck, btw. You'll do fine.
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I can't imagine that this girl would be desperate she is so incredibly beautful, unless of course she sucks at relationships as bad as I do, then I got nothin' to worry about!
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seems like you have your head in order. good luck.
 
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
dont do what ben stiller did before his date in something about mary...


oh and its nonchalant
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What are you talking about. That is one of best pieces of advice you could give someone about to go on a date.

Its like going out with a loaded gun.

People get hurt that way...

EDIT: Oh, and check your ears before you leave 😉
 
when you go to dinner, don't sit accross from her, sit next to her.

you don't have to talk well, listen well. allow her conversation to generate questions. take things out her conversation that you have some interest in and ask her questions as tho she is the expert.

be a good listener. don't get carried away trying to show her who you are, show that you are interested in who she is.

that's how i always did it when i dated.

boy that's a long time ago now. 🙂
 
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