woolfe: Unfortunately, there are many other things which "adhere to our being" besides altruism. We differ in that I don't think we can condition ourselves to not desire to do wrong to others, because some of those bad intentions are hardwired just as are some of our good intentions. You can condition your behavior, to be sure, but desires can't easily be conditioned away. And they vary in degree from person to person.
M: You think because you do not know. I believe that everything you say here is because you do not know your own story, how you came to believe as you do, how you were conditioned, that you do not know what you feel and therefore do not remember the origin of those feelings. In order to understand this subject you need to a different perspective on the origin of good and evil and it is given in the Bible allegorically.
You were born in the Garden of Oneness, of perfection and unity, a being not separated from feeling by the presence of any defensive device capable of feeling any feeling to the maximum of your capacity, without any guilt to prevent you from feeling maximum pleasure or any defense against any violent pain. And then you learned language and the illusion of duality, that things can be good or evil including yourself. In this way you learned to be afraid, and to be manipulated, be good and you will be loved or not and suffer pain. You ate from the tree of Knowledge and learned to divide yourself from things, to compare, to judge, to value this and reject that, to divide against your self, the thinker and the object of thought. You became unreal, a believer in things that do not exist. So none of these things adhere to you but were created by thinking. Every time you think you are unreal. The eye cannot see itself, there is no fragment of self called you separate from reality except the figment of self called the ego. And this programming is total and runs very very deep.
w: Yes, but there is much else to basic un-socialized human nature besides morality and respecting the rights of others. If morality is set in stone as part of the core of our being, so too are less admirable qualities.
M: So it isn't the un-socialized human nature that does this but the self that is divided from reality. The acting out of evil because of belief, the feeling that one is evil so why not, the desire to get even for the fall from grace.
w: I'm talking evolutionary biology, and what I believe "adheres" is that there is some tendency to want to protect others, the reason being that it improves the reproductive fitness of the group. That is a far cry from "rights" adhering to our being, particularly since other things less laudable "adhere" as well.
M: We are a biological entity, an animal like any other, but with a capacity to use language to abstract and compare, to invent the concepts of good and evil and use pain to inculcate that belief. But there is no such thing as evil. We were made to believe a lie and we had to do it or we would have died. We were born dependent of the love of others and wanted only to please.
w: No those things would not disappear, but they are not "rights." "Rights" is a behavioral standard: thou shalt not do X to another person. If there are no other people, the concept is irrelevant. I understand that you think "rights" are an underlying feeling but you're talking about something which is more of a precursor to why we have created rights in the context of society rather than the rights themselves. If the rights themselves are so etched in stone, then why do different cultures and societies have different ideas of what people's rights are, and why does a given society change its conceptions of rights over time?
M: Because we are all at different distances from reality, at different understandings about its nature, lost at different levels of hell.
w: Morality is indeed relative. However, that has nothing to do with my own personal sense of morality, or whether I would "cede" something to the government.
M: werepossum is afraid of himself. He believes in evil but sees it out there in other people. He knows what the twisted self would do to others if it had power. It would cause others to experience the pain that created them.
w: An instructive example is how we may judge other cultures for violating our own conception of "human rights." I think we're perfectly entitled to do that, and I don't think the relativism of morality is a reason not to. We believe in the rights and morality we believe in because, at least in theory, we think they constitute the best moral system. Not judging others for violating those standards is abdicating our role as moral actors.
M: Yes, I know but let him who is without evil cast the first stone.
w: That said, there may be a situation where what is wrong here may be right somewhere else. Since you mentioned a Star Trek episode earlier, I'll mention another. In The Menagerie, a race of beings with the mental power to insert illusions in people's minds takes people captive and feeds off the emotions they experience from the illusions being projected. They style it as a beneficent captivity because the captive can live out whatever bliss they desire. However, when they discover that humans have a tendency to despise even pleasant captivity, they let Captain Pike go because they do not want him to suffer in captivity. However, the other human they have in captivity is disfigured and would rather stay on living in the fantasy world they create because she can be beautiful and healthy.
M: This is an allegorical representation of the difference between the true self and the ego. The human chooses to experience its pain and the ego does not. You and I are the ones who have been disfigured and live in a fantasy. Pike wants to awaken from his dream.
w: Morality is quite complicated, and it does vary depending on the situation. One can start with certain core principles but end up advocating different results depending on circumstance.
M: What morality requires, I think, is the courage to be real.
w: Well, first of all, legally your "rights" are qualified. They can't take them away unless you do X, Y or Z, and then they must give you a fair hearing before taking them away. Indeed, all moral propositions are qualified. Where it says "thou shalt not kill" in the Bible, they left out all the generally recognized exceptions: self-defense, warfare, mercy killings, possibly the death penalty (controversial).
M: I think love makes everything very simple. Here is a Rumi poem you may enjoy:
Some Kiss We Want:
There is some kiss we want with
our whole lives, the touch of
spirit on the body. Seawater
begs the pearl to break its shell.
And the lily, how passionately
it needs some wild darling! At
night, I open the window and ask
the moon to come and press its
face against mine. Breathe into
me. Close the language- door and
open the love window. The moon
won't use the door, only the window.