Give me tips on HOW to slow down my relationship.. we are going way too fast.

[The Stigenator]

edit:

things are going way too fast. Needless to say things happened today that I didnt expect to happen. No I am still a virgin but the point is that I didnt expect to go there especially since I havent yet fallen for her yet (i cant seem to figure out what made me fall for her back before we became a couple).

Things tonite were hot and heavy with clothing missing. Neither of us wanted to go there but it just happened. How the heck do we slow down.. give me some tips..

TGG

I got to check the car tommorow hopefully no stains anywhere :Q

edit2:

tommorow is our one week aniv... !

I was going to lock this but decided
you don't deserve that mercy.

AnandTech Moderator

 

[Ns1]

send her to me

 

[Gunslinger08]

I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

 

[melly]

you're sh*tting me, right?

 

[Geekbabe]

Just be yourself

 

[Mrfrog840]

Originally posted by: joshsquall
I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

complaining about a girl that comes on to you?

 

[TheBDB]

There is nothing wrong with getting wild with someone you just met. As long as she knows what's going on.

 

[GasX]

The Japanese LOVE you...

 

[SirChadwick]

Don't be The_Good_Guy, hand her the sausage man!

 

[LSUfan]

you have a problem that alot people on atot only dream of.
Good Luck

 

[optoman]

Wrap that sucker and all will be well. Get it as often as you can, you are only young once.

 

[iamme]

Easy. Print this image out, and turn it into a poster: Instant Mood Killer

 

[Soybomb]

No deodorant would be a good start.

If you're both cool with it though just go with it and don't worry about whats too fast or too slow, there is no schedule.

 

[yobarman]

Originally posted by: joshsquall
I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

best. post. ever.

 

Okay, let's get this straight: You've been torturing the forum with your girl troubles and how difficult it was to find an Armenian chick. Finally you get one or come close to it. What happens next? You come back to us crying for help to stop you from lacking control?

Don't worry, Vanessa is in control. She knows how to handle it since you can't handle it. She makes the call whether you like it or not.

Now, go do sit down and stop getting too anxious!

 

[katka]

Yeah Right!

She demanded a relationship when? No demands? That's a whole lot of pressure!

 

[dethman]

so many whiny people.

 

[gotsmack]

WOW! 1 week?

 

[Storm]

If you think things are going too fast... speak up. Let her know verbally, otherwise if you really really like this gal and you want to slow things down just by your body language, she might not think you're interested in her anymore.

Geez luvly do you have a photographic memory?

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: luvly
Okay, let's get this straight: You've been torturing the forum with your girl troubles and how difficult it was to find an Armenian chick. Finally you get one or come close to it. What happens next? You come back to us crying for help to stop you from lacking control?

hmm one of the rare times i agree with luvly

 

[MazerRackham]

How old are you? Dude, have as much sex as you can!!!!

 

[Deeko]

Just tell her you aren't ready. My ex was a fast mover, I made her wait for almost everything.

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: luvly
Okay, let's get this straight: You've been torturing the forum with your girl troubles and how difficult it was to find an Armenian chick. Finally you get one or come close to it. What happens next? You come back to us crying for help to stop you from lacking control?

Don't worry, Vanessa is in control. She knows how to handle it since you can't handle it. She makes the call whether you like it or not.

Now, go do sit down and stop getting too anxious!

It wasnt I who got it on hot and heavy.. it was her.. its her who is lacking control. just because I am a penis trotting guy doesnt mean that I am the one doing things. She is in control of this relationship. I dont mind that but I think we are moving a bit too fast. Come on its not yet been a week, by my clock it will be a week in an hour and 25 minutes from now (midnight) - though actually week will be 13:45hrs tommorow.

I think I am more in shock and disbelief than anything else. I am also very tired.. We talked about slowing down but I cant seem to think of ways of slowing down.. maybe you guys can give me ideas. Keeping it at this rate would mean by next week the relationship could be well over .. because we would be baseing it on sex and physical activity rather than intellectual activity.

 

[RossMAN]

Look at your right hand.

Tell him it's over, for real this time!

If that doesn't work then use talcum powder instead of lotion.

 

[optoman]

Originally posted by: RossMAN
Look at your right hand.

Tell him it's over, for real this time!

If that doesn't work then use talcum powder instead of lotion.

lol

good guy - man, what's your problem? Do you think you are going to marry this girl? Take it for what its worth, sex, having fun and getting to know someone. If you guys break up anytime soon who cares, its only been a week. Give me her phone number and I'll finish the job.